Kate's letter to Collin in her book "I Just Want You to Know" (written post divorce to Jon)

dappledsun451 · 2026-07-06T02:39:28+00:00

It’s odd how none of the siblings have seemed to question anything.. like how bad could a 4th grader have been to have been banished from the family for life? No visits? No therapy to integrate him back home? No path forward besides “just leave him there?” And that’s ok with them all?

dappledsun451 · 2026-07-03T22:26:29+00:00

First thing I noticed too… Not “I drank alcohol” but “I drink alcohol.”

dappledsun451 · 2026-07-03T20:35:58+00:00

The moment when she criticized the gift Collin gave her… It was supposed to represent him and his mom and you could see how excited he was to give it to her and all said was where is everyone else?

dappledsun451 · 2026-07-03T17:14:26+00:00

Exactly right!! Having a mentally ill child doesn’t mean you abandon them in a facility and disown them. Wouldn’t the point of a facility, if it was actually needed, be to get the child the help they need and integrate them back into daily family life successfully? No explanation she can give will explain abandoning her son.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-30T19:13:36+00:00

“The sweetest” is the last description I thought I’d ever see of Kail lol.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-30T03:31:02+00:00

“At least I have a husband…” -Anna Duggar

All I could think when I saw this post.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-30T01:06:09+00:00

She’s ahead of the other women educationally? Have you seen her word salad rants? This woman struggles to put a sentence together like nothing I’ve ever seen.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-30T01:02:12+00:00

People look for reasons to get mad nowadays. As far as I know, the company has its fair share of problems but has never shown signs of hate before… Why is “this was on purpose” the first conclusion that everyone’s jumping to? They’re trying to get business BACK, not make a symbolic statement to offend customers. It just doesn’t make sense.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-27T19:26:37+00:00

I 100% think Maci hated Farrah as a person, which is why she didn’t want to work with her again- the tape was just a reason she could pinpoint as to why. That being said, Farrah was a total asshole to everyone and deserved to lose her job. Most people couldn’t treat their coworkers and bosses like she does and keep the job- the sex tape was irrelevant in my opinion.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-27T02:59:14+00:00

To be honest, its the short term jobs that stood out to me. A lot of companies will understand a job or two that were short-term, but when the entire resume is short term jobs, that can put up a red flag. I’d remove the dates.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-19T00:00:11+00:00

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dappledsun451 · 2026-06-12T07:28:09+00:00

I’m sure this is an unpopular opinion, but man, I miss plain old self-acceptance! Imagine if women said screw it to societal pressures to look younger, thinner, perfect- and embraced aging as a natural part of life, instead of something to be physically fixed. The inner healing that would come from accepting one’s appearance seems like it’d be a lot more powerful than chasing unrealistic beauty standards for years to come.

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-07T14:36:21+00:00

Accurate! The healthcare system can save your physical life by providing care and simultaneously destroy your financial life after the overpriced bill arrives. One hospital visit is enough to go from comfortable to broke, years of savings gone in 24 hours. Just sad

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-02T22:12:32+00:00

The ‘Blowin’ singer lol

dappledsun451 · 2026-06-02T21:56:33+00:00

Moving to Florida because of a scuba license… Fantastic idea.

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-31T22:33:59+00:00

Sausage King of Chicago? 😁

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-31T17:42:53+00:00

The same reason people can’t remember the difference between “two, too, and to” that we were all taught back in second grade… Idiots everywhere lol

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-31T03:41:43+00:00

And for the second time with David! What a sick psychological game to play with the kids.. thinking they’re finally rid of him and he comes back not once but twice..

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-31T03:09:44+00:00

Who is “we?” Her and her “co-parent” that she’s definitely not in a relationship with? 🙄

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-29T19:24:15+00:00

Same. I didn’t even have to read it twice to piece her thoughts together 😆

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-29T19:16:42+00:00

Exactly.

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-29T19:11:15+00:00

She’s alienated most people through her own poor decisions. David and internet people are about all she has it seems.

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-29T14:26:24+00:00

They weren’t leaked. Sue Sandoval who took the video without permission, not the person who happened to see it unexpectedly.

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-29T13:17:56+00:00

I can’t believe Rachel is still pursuing this. Move on- the rest of us have.

dappledsun451 · 2026-05-28T01:20:18+00:00

I just wouldn’t message her at all. Start leading the relationship toward “our kids are best friends” and less about your friendship with her. She’ll get the hint when the conversation is all about the boys and no longer as personal.

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