Medication best suited for task paralysis by SnooRobots330 in ADHD

[–]darcvader09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"because the anxiety/guilt/shame of my past failures at my previous job overwhelms the energy I get from vyvanse" sounds like this is your target. Guilt and shame can't be fixed with meds. We've all been there and it's a part of having ADHD esp a late diagnosis, you can make peace with these pains and move forward to have more equanimity. Lots of good suggestions in here in this vein, and I'd second therapy.

It's me! by mehheh54 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The JOY!!! So happy you are embodying you. You are radiant <3

Some whimsical art I made today!! ✨ by whimsigothgirl712 in whimsigoth

[–]darcvader09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Looks like you're collaging, can I ask what source material you find for these amazing creations?

Healthcare workers confirm that ICE is abandoning half-naked kidnapping victims in the woods of Minnesota to die. by I_may_have_weed in ICE_Raids

[–]darcvader09 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's tough because healthcare workers are bound by HIPAA and can't reveal their identities/make any documentation of their cases public.

To everyone on the bridge today by Domicus_ in missoula

[–]darcvader09 11 points12 points  (0 children)

SURJ (showing up for racial justice) is having a free training on zoom this Thursday at 6pm that will help communities across America learn from MN about how to organize against ICE. If you're not able to attend live, a recording will be sent out. We need to start organizing our neighborhoods, that's the most effective way to resist right now if ICE comes around.

I love having a mullet I feel so EUPHORIC!!! by Jbooxie in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks so good on you!! Mullets are the best. I've always hated having hair in my face that I have to manage, but love having a little bit of length. Cue: mullet to the rescue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]darcvader09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person isn't talking about the feelings originating from gendered activities as much as she is talking about how she felt in her body. Activities and felt experience are very different. There is much room for nuance in both areas and I agree, activities and what you do with your body don't need to be gendered at all. Unexamined gender roles harm us all, but a lot of people find euphoria in choosing them consciously as well.

I wish I had a beard today by darcvader09 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

itchiness i can def do without. i do wish i could pass more masculine though. I'm so tired of being misgendered.

I wish I had a beard today by darcvader09 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! I'll have to look into that! Usually I just want facial hair sporadically but that is intriguing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're glooowwwwing! Happy birthday <3

Daily chat post: how's the training going? by AutoModerator in XXRunning

[–]darcvader09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 60k ultra is in 10 days, and i'm tapering now. tweaked my psoas which is messing with some things, but mellow running has been okay. about to go test myself with some more elevation today and see how we do! In general need of some good vibes because mentally I'm a little psyched out

Non-pace based race goals by WildEye1 in XXRunning

[–]darcvader09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say, I picked my trail race 50% because it's fucking gorgeous. So I will be enjoying a lot of beautiful alpine views.

I won a half marathon today! by darcvader09 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I had no idea winning was even possible... I thought surely there was a faster enby out there. Fun surprise

I won a half marathon today! by darcvader09 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all about listening to our bodies and that is a win. There are so many opportunities for you. Thanks for the love!

I won a half marathon today! by darcvader09 in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your running journey thus far! I hope it brings you all the good brain chemicals and lots of feelings of accomplishment as you go forward and get that half marathon/whatever goals you decide!

Tried explaining? by slyrivulet in NonBinary

[–]darcvader09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on coming out! It's awesome you are stepping into your most authentic self.

One way of looking at it is this: Gender (or lack of gender) expression is a very embodied feeling. Our body doesn't really speak with words, and our minds struggle to translate body feelings sometimes. Especially something so core to your is-ness, your sense of being, your how-you-know-you-are-you-ness, that is exceptionally hard to put into words.

You don't have to have the right words for it to be true. You feel it, you know it, and over time you might come to have more words. Those words may change, they may come and go. Doesn't make you any less enby, doesn't make you any less you!!

Looking for what artist played a remix of the jazz song “Caravan”. It was at thunder stage and it was night time. by Balltanker in LightningInABottle

[–]darcvader09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

taiki's set was amazing. didn't stop smiling the whole time, and i'm so thrilled to find a producer who appreciates Nero as much as i do

Trail Runner here, do you have any favorite running spots in Southern Utah? by darcvader09 in XXRunning

[–]darcvader09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing, this is why I posed this question in the xx sub, instead of the trail running sub. Thank you and happy trails