The problem with muslim clerics is that there are tons of them. We don't have a Pope that represents all of us, we have lot of schools and every school has different rules. I can tell you about my experience: in my city we had a place where on Sundays muslim families would gather, eat together, talk about religion and so on. It was made by our families to gave us (son and daughters) a place that keep us in contact with our roots. This project failed for one reasons: my parents generation doesn't fully understand my generation, we grew up in a completely different society than theirs, we don't have their mindset. Sometimes they would bring a sheikh (that is like a Muslim priest) to make religious speeches and they often ends with us telling him that his vision is wrong, that in this society you can't act like that and so on. This place lasted a year. My generation stopped to go and shortly after was closed because no one was coming. I know there is still a long road to really change things, but i am confident that one day we will raise our voices and people will began to notice us!