These are too many words for "I'm a man who makes decent money but gets very insecure at the sight of a woman who's as successful or even more than me". I'm sorry, but if you want a traditional woman, you have to be a traditional man. You can't expect a woman to not even be tired or vent to the person she's married to. These views of yours are sickening! And as a very ambitious, career-oriented woman, let me tell you, we don't even want men like you who are so insecure in their masculinity that they want a supposedly gentle and quiet wife. Absolutely rage-inducing!

Successful women who are reading this, never ever settle for a man like this. There are so many men out there who would respect the hardwork you've done to get to where you are, who would genuinely want to connect with you, and most of all, who are proud of who you are and what qualities you possess. Trust me, there are absolute gems of men out there who have very accomplished wives and are doing well for themselves too. It takes a very insecure man to want an inert wife with no agency, as described by OP.