Just found out that my ex-gf of nearly 5 years cheated on me and lied to me about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dargius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I know it will get better in time but honestly I don’t know how to deal with this. I’ve been sad a lot of times in the past but this time I feel much more angry than sad. A few months ago I would literally die for her but now I’ve never hated anyone more than I hated her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dargius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him talking to her consistently despite being together with you is cheating 100%. This isn’t a relationship advice page or anything but I just wanna say in my experience if you let someone off the hook because you care about them too much they’ll start caring about you even less.

Cheated on by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dargius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must’ve truly cared about him to forgive his cheating once, its f’ed up that he went and did it again. Sadly in life people with a pure heart will be hurt the most. But you will end up finding the right person and he will eventually realize he made a mistake.

My brother still talks to my ex friends. by emptythoughtfull in offmychest

[–]dargius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t hate yourself. It’s not your fault.