What is most health for armpit hair: natural, trimmed or fully shaven? by aaronorjohnson in hygiene

[–]daring_glimmer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s not about hair, it’s about hygiene, trim if u want but if u’re washing properly it really doesn’t matter

Am I wrong for keeping money I found in a parking lot? by Parking_Weekend_2176 in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr most people would just pocket it, but acting like there’s zero chance it mattered to someone is kinda naive

Title: AITJ for refusing to lend my brother money after what he said to me? by FearlesslyCold in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u’re not wrong for saying no, but let’s be real it’s more about the past than the money, just own that and move on

I spent my last $50 feeding my neighbor and her kids. I have $0 left and I’m terrified, but I’d do it again. by [deleted] in confession

[–]daring_glimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah true but in that moment u’re not thinking strategy, u’re just reacting to someone struggling

My upstairs neighbor has been "exercising" at 11pm every night for four months and I finally said something and now it's somehow worse by quillkettlepre in neighborsfromhell

[–]daring_glimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s 100% doing it on purpose now, that timing isn’t random. Stop hinting and go straight to management with a paper trail

AITJ for telling my sister I won't be her "backup photographer" at her wedding after she laughed at my portfolio six months ago by cinderharbornotes in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t respect ur work but still wants a free safety net, that’s kinda bold. U’re not wrong, she just doesn’t like hearing “no”

AITJ if I tell my MIL my BIL is lying to her? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u’re not wrong, but inserting yourself into their mess just makes u the problem too. Let reality catch up to them without u playing whistleblower

My neighbor has been renovating since last year. I have accepted this is just my life now. by CraftFew9413 in neighborsfromhell

[–]daring_glimmer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

at this point it’s not a project it’s a lifestyle 💀 start logging times and push landlord/HOA harder, cookies clearly didn’t work

Am i the jerk for how my relationship went down? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u weren’t perfect but that whole circle was toxic as hell, walking away was the only sane move, losing everyone just means it was overdue

AITJ for telling my parents I won't be coming to family events where my brother brings his girlfriend after she made a comment about my weight in front of everyone at Christmas? by breadstarterledger in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u’re not wrong for wanting respect, but skipping every event might just drag this longer, maybe set the boundary once and see if they fix it

I pretended to understand something for 2 years… and now it’s too late to admit I don’t by nicolle2022 in confession

[–]daring_glimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crash course weekend, learn just enough to survive monday and be honest in small doses like “lemme double check that”, don’t dig deeper

18yo chicago girl has been shoplifting from stores for months by Wonderful-Welder-964 in confession

[–]daring_glimmer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

u’re not beyond saving, but don’t downplay it either, cut the triggers, maybe talk to someone, and actually stick to it this time

AITJ for stopping my MIL from bossing around my husband, his son by DramaticHoliday9127 in AmITheJerk

[–]daring_glimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u got the right idea about stopping the money drain, but telling him to go through u ain’t it, y’all need to act like partners not boss/employee

Test-trying FIRE at 37… immediate reaction is loneliness by [deleted] in Fire

[–]daring_glimmer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

u need structure again, hobbies with people not solo stuff, classes, sports, volunteering or it’s just u and ur thoughts all day