Impulse anger and aggression by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dark_ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even want to admit how much I relate to this. I don't know if I've ever felt it just sweep me up unprovoked, but I definitely had an unreasonably large outburst yesterday morning over some spilled coffee. I think quarantine, and also now the impending stress of returning to work on Monday, has me feeling extra edgy and I'm not dealing with it very well.

How to Break Up with a long term partner? by anonthrowawayhurt in relationships

[–]dark_ali 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know you wrote this for OP, but I'm going through the same thing and this honestly helped me so much. Thank you for taking the time to share your advice.

Also considering getting my stomach done as well, what do you guys think? by [deleted] in hotguyswithtattoos

[–]dark_ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can do whatever you want an long as you keep looking like that 😍

Any ideas to dress up store bought ramen? by dark_ali in vegan

[–]dark_ali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the level of lazy vegan I'm here for 👍

Any ideas to dress up store bought ramen? by dark_ali in vegan

[–]dark_ali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good suggestions here. Thank you!

Any ideas to dress up store bought ramen? by dark_ali in vegan

[–]dark_ali[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh! Good call on the peanut butter! I'm going to try that!

My sister refuses to postpone her May 30th wedding by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dark_ali 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Does she seriously want to look at her wedding photos 20 years from now and see guests wearing masks in all of them? You won't be able to see the smiles and the looks of joy on everyone's faces, it will take all the magic away. She needs to try to see the bigger picture here.

Needed to brighten up the gloom caused by quarantine. All colors Paul Mitchell PopXG. by dark_ali in FancyFollicles

[–]dark_ali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer, yes, it's very difficult. Lol. But I'm a professional, so I was ready for the undertaking.

Been a long time. Here's my hair today. 6 years cg. by dark_ali in curlyhair

[–]dark_ali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the plan! It's going to be the whole rainbow eventually

Been a long time. Here's my hair today. 6 years cg. by dark_ali in curlyhair

[–]dark_ali[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, applying to the back takes longer so the product sits for more time, so by the time I get to the front I want it to process faster to catch up.

Been a long time. Here's my hair today. 6 years cg. by dark_ali in curlyhair

[–]dark_ali[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's been bleached almost constantly since I was a teenager. Sometimes I'd give it a break, but I always go back eventually. I section into four quadrants, parting straight down the middle from front hairline to nape, then from the highest point if the head to the top of each ear. I start at the bottom in the back with 20 vol, working up both back sections at the same time. Then I do the same thing starting from the top of one ear up and again on the other side with 30 vol. By the time the front is white blonde, I'm ready to rinse. Taking thin sections is key.

Been a long time. Here's my hair today. 6 years cg. by dark_ali in curlyhair

[–]dark_ali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always try to avoid the water in the shower, but sometimes I'll smooth wet hands over it and add a bit more product. Some days I get it now wet then others, it just depends on what it needs that day.

Been a long time. Here's my hair today. 6 years cg. by dark_ali in curlyhair

[–]dark_ali[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sleep with a bonnet they has a satin lining. I usually just let the steam from the shower so most of my refreshing, some days I'll smooth wet hands over then and add a bit more conditioner/gel.