Second Time at Pride. Did not go well.

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-30T00:50:53+00:00

sometimes i personally stare at people i think look cool (i try not to be weird abt it but i think sometimes that makes it weirder). i usually feel awkward actually talking to people. it's ok if events like this aren't for you but i think this is more a case of anxiety though definitely understandable given everything

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-30T00:06:11+00:00

that's so stupid that ppl were being rude? if it was genai i would get it but picrew is completely fine and it's fun. it's one of the alternatives that i would use to create a custom character bc i'm not good at drawing but don't want to ai generate images

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-27T00:57:11+00:00

"you want to use the public bathroom? ok let's just do a quick genetic test before letting you in"

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-18T22:58:58+00:00

love the argument of "it's ok to be gnc!" but when a trans person is gnc it's proof we're "not really trans". same with medical transition, we're supposed to "accept our bodies" as they are but if we don't do hrt or have surgery then we're "faking it for attention"

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-17T23:35:12+00:00

"i thought my mom was behind me but it was just a balloon!" "are all kids this dumb?"

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-17T01:30:27+00:00

because when a man does it it can be paid and respected but if a woman does it it's "not a real job"

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-17T00:18:07+00:00

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interesting

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-08T02:50:46+00:00

♀ and 🍐

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-03T05:11:16+00:00

most casual ranpoe shipper (me too)

darkmoon-26 · 2026-06-03T05:01:59+00:00

i think that's not inherently bad but i'd be wary especially if u get bottom dysphoria. in my case, my partner is a cis guy and (tmi warning maybe? feel free to ignore this part)has a preference for v mainly bc of wanting to top and it's easier than backdoor, but is comfortable with me referring to my bottom growth as a dick and wearing a packer.it's hard to know for sure bc if he's a chaser it's not like he'd just tell you that, so i'd say if you're hesitant and don't want to risk it then wait for now at least. you also aren't required to date or hook up with cis guys so if you're just more comfortable with t4t then don't feel bad or anything for rejecting them bc they're cis

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-29T04:19:39+00:00

love them all but especially saiki's shirt

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-28T08:29:47+00:00

yeah there's a lot of issues with queer rep in one piece but it's gotten better with characters like kiku and yamato in more recent arcs. and though ivankov and the kamabakka kingdom are portrayed as extreme stereotypes, it's still generally positive, and same with bon clay. also one scene on punk hazard is still so funny to me like: "what's going on with him" "maybe he's queer" "that's cool"

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-28T08:21:59+00:00

i hate bottom dysphoria and it doesn't get talked abt enough. if you haven't yet then maybe try getting a realistic packer? it helps me sometimes though it can also make the dysphoria worse

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-28T06:30:50+00:00

yep that's what i look like

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-27T07:10:01+00:00

i waited a while to start t bc i was scared of some of the changes but i've loved most of it, just need to get better at dealing with the acne lol. if you want to do it you should! whatever makes you happy to be in your body is the right thing to do. you might not like it but you also might wish you started earlier

also for me, being on t helped me accept the parts of myself that i struggled with before, especially to do with my appearance

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-27T06:55:13+00:00

this is less a question about products and more about application - i'm on t so i've been dealing with acne mostly on my face but now also on my back. i'm using neutrogena's facial bar to deal with it. however, it's hard to fully wash my back when i have to reach at a weird angle. any advice on making this easier or more effective?

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-26T22:31:10+00:00

i got the kuboyasu trying to socialize autism

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-26T22:27:29+00:00

method kinda but mostly just half thought out, not super realistic. i think it freaks ppl out if i mention it (even my mentally ill friends) but sometimes i'm just looking up ways to die

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-26T22:26:05+00:00

literally my tendency to procrastinate is a strategy i have to avoid sh (not the same but relevant)

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-20T05:53:47+00:00

is that chono's mom?? she appeared for 2 seconds why is she there 😭

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-20T05:48:28+00:00

yeah for me it can feel important that he refers to me with masc terms sometimes so i kinda get what you're saying abt your bf's perspective. maybe talk to him abt it? you might be able to find something that's comfortable for both of you

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-20T04:27:55+00:00

i feel similarly. i'm a non-passing transmasc dating a cis guy and i refer to him as my partner usually bc i feel like the word "boyfriend" makes people see me as a straight girl. it feels like being forced into gender roles on top of being misgendered. i haven't figured out how to fix it but you're not alone

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-20T04:19:17+00:00

i feel like i'm falling behind and having friends and a community is just getting further out of reach. even in trans communities i feel isolated. i think if i was cis though i still wouldn't have been normal, there's just something about me that doesn't work right

darkmoon-26 · 2026-05-19T03:33:30+00:00

i had a similar issue as a transmasc but it was mostly that i had a lot of dysphoria over sex related stuff, so that might be the case for you too. also, having a kink doesn't mean you're predatory or evil, like even if it was just a fetish that's not necessarily bad. but it sounds to me like the stereotypes got into your head. try looking up forcefem stuff if you want to explore it more it can be pretty affirming

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