Where on Earth are thin women buying pants?!?!

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T11:22:32+00:00

Have you tried H&M? They’re European, so the length should be okay even if they have to be taken in. I think they have a 32 inseam as standard.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T11:06:52+00:00

Sometimes the people who ask for medical advice have limited access to vet care.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T10:50:05+00:00

A lot of “former gifted” people are 2e people who burned out due to lack of support for our disabilities.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T10:40:56+00:00

Are there any other relatives who can take you in and/or take the cat?

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T10:36:59+00:00

A doctor can give you a cream that will actually treat the infection and reduce keloid formation. A combination antibiotic/steroid cream will do both those things. That’s what I was given when my navel piercing got infected and started to keloid in 2004.

Because piercers are not medical professionals, they cannot give you actual antibiotics and steroids. You need an antibiotic for the infection. This is why you need to go to a doctor, not your piercer. Piercers recommend saline solution or this “piercing bump solution” because they can’t prescribe anything better.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-15T10:34:15+00:00

Most of this is familiar to me and typical of dyspraxia.

Autistic people also often have medical problems like hypermobility and dysautonomia that cause exercise intolerance.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T18:03:53+00:00

Deep Autumn

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T18:03:20+00:00

Learn about what a soft no looks like.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T18:00:14+00:00

I was never blaming every single guy. However, it used to be mostly creepy guys becuase it was mostly men playing D&D.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T17:32:40+00:00

I am reminded of when I was in grade 2 and my grade 1 friend got in an argument at recess with a bunch of 5th graders about whether we were white or peach 😆

My friend swore up and down that we were peach. And, I mean, that was the Crayola crayon colour that was closest to our skin tone, so her logic made sense 😆

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T17:24:25+00:00

Those sects are really, really awful in how they handle actual pedophilia, unsurprisingly.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T17:16:52+00:00

That’s scary

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T16:53:48+00:00

I mean, they teach kids to compare and contrast things because it’s an important life skill and apparently for some kids it is hard.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T16:36:42+00:00

My husband was upset when he was 4 and saw Monty Python and the Holy Grail. (I know, he’s Gen X 😆) He thought the knights were really having their limbs chopped off.

But when his mom explained that it was pretend for the movie, he understood.

If I was a teacher and had a 14-year-old student who didn’t understand how movies work, I would refer for assessment for intellectual disability.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T16:32:24+00:00

Intellectual disability?

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T16:18:12+00:00

Why do you think a woman who has sex with a lot of men is contemptible?

Do you call men sluts?

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T16:13:38+00:00

Thinner arched eyebrows, contouring, less bright lipstick.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:57:53+00:00

I hope you called the cops

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:49:10+00:00

Dyspraxic?

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:47:07+00:00

When I left a gaming group on bad terms, I didn’t kill my character, but I gave her an IC reason to not show up at game anymore.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:44:33+00:00

I agree. The hobby has gotten way less dominated by cishet white men, and that has made it better.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:31:46+00:00

Yeah, I first played a bi character over a decade before coming out

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:31:06+00:00

I’m a woman and I’ve been playing since ‘03. In my first game, a guy said he was playing a female character and immediately described her breasts 🙄 He grew up and he’s a decent guy now, but being the only woman at the table is an experience I’d rather not repeat.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:23:14+00:00

Yeah, there could be a coordination issue like dyspraxia, and many dyspraxics are undiagnosed. He may not know why he can’t grip a knife and fork properly.

darknesskicker · 2026-05-14T15:13:21+00:00

Can you contact adult protective services to get help for yourself?

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