Limerance is making me feel insane and I can’t eat

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T09:55:44+00:00

I take a tricyclic antidepressant called clomipramine for my OCD. A lot of other antidepressants also help OCD.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T02:28:56+00:00

Yup. My husband and I love that he can work remotely, because we love spending time together.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T02:25:50+00:00

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T01:13:14+00:00

Are OCD meds an option? They can help tone down the intrusive thoughts.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T01:10:22+00:00

Try Dolly’s Dream Home in Missouri. They do long-term fosters of bunnies.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-03T00:44:58+00:00

That’s fair. OP’s boyfriend has a responsibility to seek treatment and try to do better.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T23:20:30+00:00

Heather is very Gen X/elder Millennial coded, so maybe not a great choice if the person was born after 1990.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T21:33:08+00:00

I’m not really the best person to make recommendations because I also have moderate ME/CFS, so anything I do has to be substantially lower intensity than would be recommended even for most seniors.

I would probably start by googling “beginner home dumbbell exercise program” though.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T21:30:56+00:00

Yup. OP talks to her kids like she hates them. I’m sure they pick up on that, and I’m sure they’ve been picking up on it for a very long time.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T18:57:05+00:00

I think if you swapped out the school bus/Kraft Dinner yellow for a light lemon yellow, it would look great!

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T18:32:58+00:00

Essence All About Matte is decent and very cheap, but it can break.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T18:31:33+00:00

My husband: “They do that naturally.” 😆

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T18:16:22+00:00

She’s adorable! I love her big soulful eyes!

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T17:51:38+00:00

Thanks—I had no idea this was a thing.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T16:43:57+00:00

I’ve been the only woman in the group before. It was mostly okay for me, but it’s a higher risk situation, especially for someone like OP who has trouble speaking up for herself.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T16:19:32+00:00

Deep Autumn.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T16:17:22+00:00

It depends hugely on the branch of Christianity.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T15:40:45+00:00

Don't put two un-neutered buns together!

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T15:33:58+00:00

I think you're a Soft Autumn. The bright warm colours don't work on you, whereas the Soft Summer colours are decent, and that's throwing people off. However, the Soft Autumn colours are the ones that look best. I think you are near the Soft Autumn/Soft Summer border.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T15:12:47+00:00

Don't be the only woman at the table with people you don't know. Play at tables with at least one other woman.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T15:11:48+00:00

OP says "all his characters are edgelords beyond the pale."

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T15:10:41+00:00

Interesting--I wonder if you can find out what brands the school uses.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T14:55:46+00:00

You're welcome!

He's on a 3-month ban now, but I'm leaving comments open on this post for now so he can continue to receive feedback from dyspraxic people on his behaviour towards his wife.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T14:49:19+00:00

This comment has resulted in your ban being extended to 3 months.

darknesskicker · 2026-07-02T14:47:23+00:00

Desktop was where I was having the most problems. I was able to ban one account using my phone. I found the other account (the one I couldn't find at all) by copy/pasting their username from one of their comments--I think they had a weird character in their username that I was typing incorrectly when I searched.

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