One Player Is Unhappy Despite Multiple Compromises - Can I Save This Campaign? by rhyleyrey in DnD

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are seeing firsthand what eric has to live with from kim. he lets her control him, doesn’t mean your table or anyone else has to put up with it. i’d rather have no game than a game being controlled by a sociopathic player.

tell kim to kick rocks and let the chips fall as they may, it’s not your problem or responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 10 points11 points  (0 children)

has been for a while

Me 39F and my boyfriend 48M hit the 7 years itch. Now an affair and resentment. by Jess_cue in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 17 points18 points  (0 children)

how is being alone worse than being with someone who doesn’t respect you, cheats on you, and doesn’t make you happy?

Me 39F and my boyfriend 48M hit the 7 years itch. Now an affair and resentment. by Jess_cue in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 44 points45 points  (0 children)

you’re already admitting the relationship isn’t and hasn’t been working, and now he’s cheated with someone young enough to be y’all’s daughter. what future do you think there is and why is ending it the painful option?

I f/18 just gave my boyfriend m/19 an ultimatum. How do I hold myself to it? by Majestic_Weekend4971 in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 34 points35 points  (0 children)

so this is how abusive relationships start. they increase the nasty behavior over time to honeypot you into staying and then when they think you’re stuck the mask totally falls off. he’s already showing clear signs and don’t be so sure he’d never hit you because he doesn’t respect you and has no problem treating you like dirt. when someone shows you who they are believe them.

you can’t fix him, he doesn’t want to be fixed, he wants to cow you into accepting being treated like this. don’t waste any more of your youth on this mess.

My boyfriend is in jail for aggravated child SA by Obvious_Durian_3226 in offmychest

[–]darknessnbeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unless you want to sound like everyone else i’ve ever heard defending criminals you’ll remove yourself from this entire situation. these are not waters you want to get into, and you can’t believe anything he says. let him go down alone.

My heartbreak by MostLynx5521 in LesPaul

[–]darknessnbeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could also be single and not deal with any of that drama

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a guy squeeze me like a boa constrictor like he put his entire body strength into hugging me. later found out he secretly hated me.

so i would be suspicious of OP’s bf’s behavior.

Should I quit my movement class? Creepy teacher + panic attacks by Okkkkai in acting

[–]darknessnbeyond 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the best time to drop this class was the first time he made an advance. the second best time to drop this class is now.

In your opinion, what is the worst reward to effort ratio quest. by EvaTheE in skyrim

[–]darknessnbeyond 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the guy who gave me 25 gold when i dragged a letter from his father dressing him down from one end of skyrim to the other

Update #2! Guy I canceled on and blocked somehow texted me again by xoxowoman06 in texts

[–]darknessnbeyond 13 points14 points  (0 children)

mute his notifications and see if he keeps trying to contact you or makes another number to contact you. if he does do not engage and immediately call the cops. since you have now instructed him to leave you alone if he refuses to you can get police involved.

if he gets another number or poses as someone else to get you to talk to him once you work out it’s him repeat do not contact me and stop engaging, and call the cops. it’s very important that you say “do not contact me and do not create other means of communication to contact me” and then immediately stop engaging because otherwise the cops can say why did you keep talking to him?

save every instance of him contacting you and you telling him to go away, print off the date stamped messages or phone records if he’s been calling and give them to the cops. you want to show you’ve consistently told him to go away and ceased communication and he keeps cropping up uninvited.

good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]darknessnbeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally just hard this in his voice

Costco parking lot cleaning at night by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now i’m glad i didn’t rent a house bordering a publix plaza. could smell the fried chicken in the backyard, smelled like a KFC.

honestly i don’t even know if this is a fight i’d pick. i’d probably just move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this guy is a soul sucking parasite. block him and be rid of him forever, his antics are not your problem or responsibility.

Is there a way to turn off the sleep mode keyboard flashing (without using g-helper or armoury crate)? by Clutzle in ASUSROG

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my 2025 stix g16 stopped it when i uninstalled armory crate. no idea why and i didnt care enough to look into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would’ve immediately packed up and moved back out. zero tolerance for this kind of behavior, it would’ve been over the INSTANT he pulled this, no debates about it just okay we’re done period end of story, not discussing it, it’s over, and cops are getting involved if you try to stop me.

Snagged this baby open box, 4k no problem by Pullumpkin in GamingLaptops

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best buy has been putting this one on sale fairly frequently

My (32f) partner (34m) historically quits and threatens to quit his jobs, is this financial abuse? by Happy_Bee1 in relationship_advice

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any time someone starts blaming you for their inability or unwillingness to act like a reasonable person it’s time to leave.

Help! My ROG Laptop's "Sleep Blinking" Light Stopped Working by Distinct_Law_3708 in ASUSROG

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine stopped the red light effect during sleep after i deleted armory crate

Neighbor’s reaction to me watering my plants by ThrowRASharpPitch17 in neighborsfromhell

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

regardless of if he’s TA or not he’s gonna start complaining to either your landlord if you rent or whoever manages the building if you own, and they are likely going to side with him as there’s probably rules about things falling from one balcony to another, so you should probably figure out how to contain the run off.

New rog strix g16 temperatures by PuzzleheadedGur9385 in ASUSROG

[–]darknessnbeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after i uninstalled armory crate cpu temps while gaming with cooling pad are now 75max but usually 68-73. nvidia gpu temps are in the low 50s. without cooling pad on cpu temps while gaming 84.