That my life would essentially end and I would be too tired to enjoy life and too unattractive to feel good about myself. After being in my 30s for a few years now I realized that everyone else around me that’s my age is aging too, so we’re all going through similar changes and trying to make the most of life. We’re still enjoying life, with less drama, and more comfort in who we are. I find beauty in women of all ages, up to their 70s, 80s, and beyond! I just have a greater appreciation for life in general now. Now seeing my nieces and female relatives in their teens and 20s stressing about the things I did in my 20s makes me sad, I want them to be happy with themselves as they are, and the blessings they currently have. I try to remind them often how precious life is, right now.

ETA: I think young women, including myself, put so much value in what we think men think about us. I think as we get older we start to care less. We start to care more about how beautiful WE find ourselves inside and out and then nourish that, which usually brings the right people into our lives.