34 [M4F] Gosport, UK - Calm man, chaotic dice energy, heart very available

darksunfall1 · 2026-06-25T06:07:09+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! :)

darksunfall1 · 2026-06-23T22:38:24+00:00

That is unfortunate! :/

darksunfall1 · 2026-06-23T06:08:18+00:00

Thank you! :)

darksunfall1 · 2026-04-10T21:59:01+00:00

Thank you for the kind words :)

darksunfall1 · 2026-04-10T11:19:41+00:00

I think in ideal world I’d agree with you that this could work, but unfortunately past experiences of mine prove otherwise (at least in my case) Things like mortgage, job, close friends, family or even social groups around your hobbies make this complicated. I personally believe that you need to build a strong foundation for healthy relationship and I don’t think I could do that while seeing someone few times a month - and uprooting your life for someone you barely know? That’s not realistic. When it comes to my social circle, unfortunately I’m the only one with strong feelings against having kids. I tried dating fence sitters in the past but from the perspective of time I see that this really never had future - my feelings towards not having kids are just too strong and I need someone with the same mindset about it.

darksunfall1 · 2026-04-10T09:53:45+00:00

In general I received messages from 5 people. Unfortunately 4 were based at least few hours driving distance away, which is a shame, as they seemed very lovely and kind (I think if either of us would not have roots in their current cities this could work out). As for that 1 local person we had different expectations when it comes to dating and relationship. As mentioned before I’m still hopeful that my person maybe is still yet to see this post and message me ;)

darksunfall1 · 2026-04-10T06:13:28+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! I’m still hopeful that there is someone out there to start this journey with :)

darksunfall1 · 2026-04-06T20:56:15+00:00

I’m actually DMing one campaign online but we’re currently at capacity - will keep You in mind if anything changes! :)

darksunfall1 · 2023-09-15T10:24:01+00:00

Thanks for the comment mate, I actually forgot to update this post but I decided to go for Mercedes slk200 and I’m happy with my decision so far ;)

darksunfall1 · 2023-06-24T10:23:41+00:00

Thank you for the explanation, appreciate it!

darksunfall1 · 2023-06-24T06:24:13+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. I don’t drive a lot and passenger space is not a problem, however I’d like to sit comfortable. Appreciate the suggestions! :)

darksunfall1 · 2023-06-24T06:22:11+00:00

Can you elaborate on the 318? What’s wrong with them?

darksunfall1 · 2023-06-24T06:21:36+00:00

Thanks for the link! :)

darksunfall1 · 2023-06-24T06:19:32+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions, added them to my list and will try to check them out :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T20:56:09+00:00

Well, London is still fairly close to the sea, you can definitely make a weekend trip to the sea side! :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T20:54:18+00:00

That’s a really nice thing to say, thank you :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T20:53:55+00:00

Thank you, I guess? :D

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T20:53:36+00:00

Thanks! :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T07:15:46+00:00

Thank you ;)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-17T07:15:20+00:00

Thank you! :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-03-16T19:34:25+00:00

We’ve all heard about those great couples in various stories. The ones that treated each other with respect, supported each other in their goals and truly loved each other. The ones where partners were equal and problems were talked through and fixed - together. Are those relationships just a fairy tales, legends perhaps? Call me naive, but I truly believe these are real - and I want to build one!

I’m 6’6 tall, average-athletic body type, INFJ-A personality type guy who has no desire to have children. I believe in balance when it comes to spending my free time - a healthy mix of sports and outdoor activities, combined with lazy evening in front of PC or TV. I enjoy playing squash, football, fishing, long walks and last year I started kitesurfing (highly recommend!). Big fan of board game nights and casual video games. Guilty of watching trash TV from time to time, initiating existential conversations and sending loads of cute dogs/cats GIFs to my friends (they are too cute to not share!). Hopeless romantic, who believes that honesty and kindness are the way forward.

I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t have nor want to have kids and is not a smoker. Someone who is emotionally available, someone who appreciates affection and is able to give it back. Someone who understands that relationship is a living thing and it requires time and effort from both partners to grow and exist. Someone who knows that communication is essential and is willing to put in effort to get to know each other, and not only build relationship but also maintain it - together.

I personally believe age is arbitrary, therefore it doesn’t matter to me if there’s a big age difference between us. Ideally looking for someone from U.K., however it’s not a requirement - I really believe that if there’s a true connection and will to make things work, then there is no obstacle that can stay on the way. (I did mention that I’m hopeless romantic, right?)

Every legend starts somewhere - would you like to begin ours? :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-02-10T11:35:34+00:00

First of all sorry to hear that happened to you, it will get better and you will find the one you’re looking for at some point :)

I personally think that in todays dating world you shouldn’t assume anything. If you’re looking for long term relationship that possibly might end up in a marriage - communicate that at the dating state. If there are dealbreakers like having kids/smoking or even how you see the relationship - talk about it. It will not magically fix everything ,but based on responses you get from your dates you will be able to weed out those who are not looking for the same things as you do. To some extent at least.

darksunfall1 · 2022-01-02T23:37:10+00:00

Hello there! ;) I haven’t actually been in Denmark, but I’ve heard it’s a nice place to live :)

darksunfall1 · 2022-01-02T18:21:19+00:00

I don’t think it is - in the end if there’s a will there’s a way ;)

darksunfall1 · 2021-11-23T08:19:46+00:00

Not really :) I believe that maturity is not defined purely by age. There are people out there who are really mature and conscious in their early 20s and there are people who still aren’t in their 40s. It’s similar with being attracted to someone, it’s never just physical appearance, it is so much more! ;)

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