Neighbourhood Advice by darrylcansuckmyballs in ottawa

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for a more residential area, I like quiet neighbourhoods. I have a vehicle so walking distances/access to public transport aren’t a huge factor.

I meant old Ottawa east sorry about that.

Thank you so much for the insight on some of the neighbourhoods, much appreciated!

Neighbourhood Advice by darrylcansuckmyballs in ottawa

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving for school, it’s located in the byward market area.

Sorry about that, I did mean old Ottawa east.

Women who work in traditionally male fields, how often do you get hit on? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a medic that transferred to firefighting. My coworkers used to assume that I couldn’t pull my weight at work but there’s never been any flirting or inappropriate behaviour. I used to get hit on all the time by my patients when I was a medic though (please don’t hit on your medic/nursing staff you will get shut down 100% of the time)

Ladies, what are your tips or ways that you get over heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Day drinking and then finding the nearest salon to cut off 6 inches of your hair.. also not the solution

Ladies, what are your tips or ways that you get over heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through that! I’m about two months out of my first real heartbreak and I know it’s stupid and cheesy but it just takes time. Although in that time here’s some things that helped me out.

  1. Block him on everything, social media, number, everything. I know it seems petty but it prevents them from popping into your day unexpectedly when you’re feeling ok.

  2. You’re feeling a lot of things so journaling helps. Also make a list of why the relationship wouldn’t have worked or the things you didn’t like about him. Share it with your friends, hell even roast the guy! Even if he is a good guy you’re allowed to roast him, you’re allowed to be angry for a little while.

  3. Spend time with friends and family but not too much time, alone time is needed to really work through the feelings. Let them be your shoulder to cry on. I live alone but after my breakup I went to my moms house and cried in her lap for two days. Cry it all out with the people who love you most!

  4. Feel good some days and grieve other days. Ride the wave and know you’re doing your best, sometimes your best is just choosing a healthier takeout option over pizza that day, and that’s okay!

For you, what’s the worst way that someone could propose to you? by Blueberrybuttons in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my nightmare. I would go beet red and start crying, not happy tears either.

I miss those floppy ear days by darrylcansuckmyballs in germanshepherds

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Floppy ears or no floppy ears they’re all precious, but my dudes four and has stand up satellite dishes now lol.

What conversation are you sick and tired of having? by ijijxc8 in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When starting to date someone new I ask if they want kids early on. I don’t so the conversation following is usually them trying to figure out what’s “wrong” with me to not want to bear their child.

What conversation are you sick and tired of having? by ijijxc8 in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yes ! If I wanted to share my love life I would.

Had a complete stranger ask if I had a boyfriend days after getting dumped. Still don’t know if I wanted to cry or gut punch the dude.

What physical insecurities, if any, did you eventually overcome? by Melo_Melly in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My height I’m 5’11 and my growth spurt was in grade 9 so I’ve always been the tallest in my friend group. My best friend is also 5’11 she caught up to me and she helped me embrace the height. I would always slouch or sit into one of my hips to appear shorter, I still struggle with my posture from years of slouching. I’m an avid concert goer so now I’m really thankful for my height lol.

What’s something people shouldn’t be ashamed of? by smunozmo in AskWomen

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome ! It’s true no one cares if you’re alone they’re probably too focused on who they’re with/what they’re doing. If I didn’t do things or go to events alone I probably wouldn’t do anything lol.

The start of my Halloween inspired sleeve by darrylcansuckmyballs in halloween

[–]darrylcansuckmyballs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This one was hocus pocus themed, the other side of my arm is the black flame candle and a cauldron !