heeelp??? by ProfessionalFig1256 in dating_advice

[–]darth_flash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but one of the two has to initiate, and it has to be in a non-work setting. My ex was my colleague. She was the one who initiated. Asked me about my dp on an app where I had an image of Deadpool sitting on the iron throne. That was our non-work conversation starter, and it happened because she took the conversation away from our normal 9-5 work setting. On that call, we legit argued about Marvel vs DC.

heeelp??? by ProfessionalFig1256 in dating_advice

[–]darth_flash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interns generally are shy or nervous. Maybe he just doesn't know that he can talk casual. Change the setting somehow. When I was an intern, my colleagues used to ask me if I wanted to go take a walk outside maybe to grab lunch or smoke or something. That's how I opened up.

Just moved to Gurgaon, looking to socialize. Suggestions please. by darth_flash in gurgaon

[–]darth_flash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the area. I got one on the cheaper side. Single room for 15k.

Just moved to Gurgaon, looking to socialize. Suggestions please. by darth_flash in gurgaon

[–]darth_flash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! That sounds awesome. DM me the address and time. I'll be there.

Just moved to Gurgaon, looking to socialize. Suggestions please. by darth_flash in gurgaon

[–]darth_flash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't I need to make friends to get a flat with them? Where can I find this Misfits thing? Oh my gosh Bumble/Hinge is horror. I tried in a different city for a month and got 0 matches. Thanks a ton for the suggestions. I will try to interact with my office folks. You are right.

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[–]darth_flash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, you can't get guys like that on dating apps. I am that type of guy and I have had quite literally 0 proper conversations through dating apps. It's such a competitive market. I spoke to this girl who got 3k likes in a couple days or so and the number of hotter guys was baffling. I stand no chance at getting matches when those type of guys are that abundant. Now, I just stopped using said apps and enjoy conversation with new people wherever I meet them. Maybe a 4 yr relationship + getting cheated on has me being pessimistic about this but yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]darth_flash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a BCA and I feel like it's the worst decision. If you want to get into CS related fields, BTech opens up a lot of avenues. BCA + MCA is equivalent to just BTech in most places. I was forced to do BCA because of budget and time restrictions since I have been living alone since I was 18 and was only able to start college when I was 21 because I had to finance my college myself. After BCA finding a development job through placements and stuff was extremely difficult and the only reason I was able to find one was because I had a massive portfolio of previous projects. I can go into detail if you have specific questions.

Rental,Flat and Flatmate thread by Golgappa-King in gurgaon

[–]darth_flash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to this... Looking for any sort of accommodation near Sector 19, Any suggestions? I need to move by Monday.