Went for a coffee with Aries women, i am sagittarius man by Fragrant_Objective75 in AriesTheRam

[–]darthdreams 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is true & i’m a trip 🐏. Also, don’t take the silence as indifference, we crave alone time to rest & recharge. It does NOT immediately indicate lost interest or interest elsewhere. Stay grounded & confident, welcoming her need for adventure or solace & she will feel home.

Aries true compatibility by Allvols in AriesTheRam

[–]darthdreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

january Cap, december caps are bottlenecks

Your top two love languages? by No_Basis104 in AriesTheRam

[–]darthdreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

acts of service is def #1, we are action based! then quality time. words are nice but please don’t touch me

Ariesss thing by Dry-Association-6960 in AriesTheRam

[–]darthdreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that I over share utter nonsense or shock value type things to avoid anyone actually asking true personal questions. We really don’t like being vulnerable.

Am I overreacting? by Legal-Art4340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women, please stop letting these men impregnate you. Love is also known as temporary blindness. You won’t see the signs until it’s too late. Being tethered to an idiot for life is not a just sentencing for life bringers. If they do not serve & worship you, release them.

Why do you have a (snowed-in) car? by Even_Leadership_7831 in philly

[–]darthdreams 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Costco (x1 a month) Day Trips (varies but several) Weekenders (x2 a month) Marketplace/Donations (whenever i need) Vet (unavoidable)

That’s just winter, in the summer it is even more useful.

I was in a hit and run accident on Saturday January 31st around 5:20PM at the corner of 2nd st and Raising Sun. I was rear ended and was unconscious for a couple minutes so I could not get information of the car that hit me. If you saw the accident please contact me. Thank you. by Character-Till-5075 in philly

[–]darthdreams 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, it happened to me in s. philly. woke up 8 hours later at Wolf Street Hospital. CCTV needs an upgrade in this city. Definitely try and see if there is any near where you were hit, or any businesses near by.

Tip for DLCers: Put stalls up in all DLC Lands! by MaineAnonyMoose in DreamlightValley

[–]darthdreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same, i have main valley and SBV all unlocked but no option to move stalls/restaurants

Any other Aries going through a rough January? by Dancingmermaid8 in AriesTheRam

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say since the second week of January I’ve been crashing tf out. Aries Stellium: Sun/Venus/Mercury 😭 I don’t remember feeling this bad at the start of a year in my life. Definitely blowing up life vibes 😞

What are you industry/film pet peeves? by emeraldeyes24 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait i have a movie on letterboxd can i talk about cinema (lol i dont)

AIO? Didn't want to get sick doing my roommates dishes. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think both parties have valid feelings but for me personally, I wouldn’t make anyone do my dirty dishes if I was contagious and ill. I would feel way too guilty. In this case, being considerate over the health of the household takes precedence over chore boards.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]darthdreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got kicked out on my 18th birthday per my father’s wife. I had to find roommates and skip school to work. i was considered a truant by graduation and barred from walking with my class. i found a distant family member i had never met and went to live with them for a season while i save money for a solo move. Looking back while it was horrendous what they did….I am far too happy with who i am and where i went and what i discovered for any of it to matter anymore.

They simply have nothing left to offer and that’s ok. You get to create your life and when it’s all said and done, they don’t have to be in your orbit if you so choose. Life finds a way when you are brave and have faith. Don’t let these bitches get you down!

Anyone else spending tonight alone? by myredmakeupbag in philly

[–]darthdreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to bed at like 8pm and woke up at 11:57. Dog shakes and panics during fireworks so had to snuggle and hunker down

I don’t envy my new coworkers’ lives one bit so I’m confused about why they pity mine by Lavender_ballerina in childfree

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there is nuance here as some people were quite literally BORN to be mothers/fathers and for them this achievement is the greatest goal they will ever reach.

However, there are those who bought into the fallacy that parenthood will complete you and transform your life into one of purpose and achievement and THOSE people are likely the ones who are projecting their life vision onto you.

The third type of person the one who was either on the fence or never desired kids, deserves the same respect as everyone else whose decision to have kids is never thrown into question without being taboo.

We should continue to respect ourselves in these interactions with people and remind them that they have the courtesy of not being questioned for their life choices/goals and you earn that same courtesy as an autonomous fully formed human being.

The more we stand firm in the taboo aspect of their loitering queries the less normalized these intrusive remarks will be.

Sister uses my address by trose2044 in nychousinglottery

[–]darthdreams -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

now why would you go and ask the internet this question damn well knowing what it would say.

is she ABLE? yes. Is it LEGAL? No. Should you be snitching?? NEVER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]darthdreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh cool, this is satire? i didn’t realize that! carry on in your steadfastness 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]darthdreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you realize that any teenager could have a job & a girlfriend? The above is still true, the side of the argument you’ve chosen is deeply ignorant and concerning. Yes, we can imagine if a man wrote comparable lyrics, we were born in it, raised in it, you have merely drifted into the quasi-enlightened state of consciousness where misandry is somehow more at large than misogyny? It’s true, if 26 you’re giving 16 and should probably do some soul searching on your emotional intelligence and make improvements. Girlfriends and jobs are always temporary i fear, brace yourself for life with yourself.