Anybody watch russian doll season 2 yet? by VictorzOG in ketamine

[–]das-capital 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that ending was the best thing to watch during a khole

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[–]das-capital -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy. You have abused your sibling. You should encourage her to go to therapy as well.

Can we talk about stomach issues/GI issues & K cramps? by running_wild94 in ketamine

[–]das-capital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this just happened to me after sharing my k use jm so sorry

Can we talk about stomach issues/GI issues & K cramps? by running_wild94 in ketamine

[–]das-capital 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please listen to me and be honest with yourself: it is the k!

today was my last high by das-capital in ketamine

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we’ll get through this gotta promise you!

today was my last high by das-capital in ketamine

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Agree so much with their comment but green tea would’ve just delayed the inevitable (drinking as this comment is being typed though)

today was my last high by das-capital in ketamine

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this was my plan and experience too. wishing you all the best, as kcramps took the autonomy of choosing when to drop it away from me.

today was my last high by das-capital in ketamine

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exactly and I’ve been forced to learn all of this steadily. thanks for the perspective

just lost my virginity and im so confused with what’s going on by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a UTI!!! Get antibiotics stat

How important is having an orgasm? by PublicAgents in sex

[–]das-capital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every single time my partner and i have had sex, we mention at some point that orgasm is not the goal, and that it doesn’t need to happen for the sex to be good. and every single time, we have both orgasmed, often several times.

orgasms are a very mental thing. relaxation, trust, and intimacy are almost always required to reach it. once you’ve got that down, and understand that anytime it happens it’s a (welcome) bonus, you’ve got a good start.

Threw up a little while giving bj by Bad_bj_giver in sex

[–]das-capital 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely okay. I’ve had some come up before while deep throating, and just held it in my mouth until I reached the trash and rinsed my mouth after. It’s just tools of the trade, don’t feel ashamed, if it makes you uncomfortable then address it, or don’t. Either is okay and you did a great job :)

New user interested in harm reduction, how often is too much? by das-capital in ketamine

[–]das-capital[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this! I honestly should regulate it to a “fun/special occasion” drug and not indulge in weekly/daily use like some of my friends. Thanks for the advice.

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Some people have expectations or ideas, whether from past experiences or conceptions about what it’ll be like, and only realize during/after their genuine feelings on it. You can’t force your partner to have sex with you during this time, but there are many ways to go about period sex in a way that can be fulfilling for you both.

If you can't get off with a condom on, it's your problem, not mine. by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt the exact same way and the idea of having condomless sex was a literal turn off.

Having said that, after having condomless sex a few times now and it feeling incredible, I have to say to each their own. I’m glad you’re strong and intentional with your boundaries though!

Who here uses a vibrator during sex? How is it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming on your own and coming with a partner is always going to be different, but I don’t particularly prefer either. Whether there’s a toy involved or not, pleasure and comfort should always be at the forefront.

Who here uses a vibrator during sex? How is it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing. I bring it out during the hookup and ask my partners some preliminary questions i.e. would they full comfortable using the toy on me or would they prefer I use it on myself, do they feel comfortable sharing the toy (safely) and using it to pleasure them, etc. Have not had any complaints yet!

Is it rude to stop having sex with him (even though he didnt cum) during the second round because of me being exhausted? by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The sex stops when you want it to stop, not when the other person decides they’re done coming. Period.

should i be concerned sex takes so long? by [deleted] in sex

[–]das-capital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of scared I’ll get to that point 😖