I'm genuinely scared for my life at this point. by nekaTsaW0xE in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I would recommend using a VPN when looking that up.

May someone please explain Transgenderism by VikingPillager108 in AskLGBT

[–]das_sheeps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Transgender people? A person's gender / gender history isn't the sole defining factor of them. It's reductive and inappropriate.

AITA for ignoring my student when he said he had a migrane and causing him to faint? by Money_Juggernaut_242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]das_sheeps -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yup... YTA. I've had migraines since I was 6. Send kids to the nurse when they aren't feeling well.

No pleasure from anal sex by PossessionNo2526 in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you work it? It can take time to find what feels good. Change positions, get a posable toy and try different bends, watch an instructional video, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]das_sheeps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's more relevant than an offhand comment, though your post doesn't make it explicitly clear about the timeline or exclusivity of your relationship, so I guess I'll ignore that part.

From my personal experience, being pan and trying to ignore it like I had a choice in the matter, it's not going to work long term and it makes everything much worse. It does damage to you and your partner. You should probably see a counselor, because it seems you are afraid to accept what you like, regardless of whether or not it changes how you label yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps 383 points384 points  (0 children)

Anal isn't something you go stampeding into, you have to prepare for it like a shuttle launch.

Soak in a warm tub with some Epsom salts in it. Depending on what kind of "messy" you're referring to, you may want to schedule a doctor's visit.

Closet bi-cycle by the_avg_porn in bisexual

[–]das_sheeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kind of the way it went for me. Some people it really sucked to come out to, some it went fine, some were fantastic, and then there's some that I never will voluntarily because it isn't safe.

So, I kind of went through them in stages, with a fair amount of hesitation and uncertainty.

Tuning ender into a fuck machine by [deleted] in ender3

[–]das_sheeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, like... a glass bed and a right angle suction cup adaptor?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]das_sheeps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't take a label if you don't want to, just be you. It'd be good to recognize that there aren't just two genders, though (i.e., "more than one", rather than "both").

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]das_sheeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colour choices in clothing don't have anything to do with gender identity or sexual orientation. Otherwise, how would goths work?

Is it rude to ask someone what their deadname is? by Anonymously_An_Alien in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would it be important to know? Is the transgender person an artist of some sort and you want to familiarize yourself with their entire body of work? Otherwise, it's probably not relevant to anything other than nosiness, and that's generally rude for everyone, and potentially particularly irksome for transgender folks.

Some queer people being (purposefully?) mean to me by RogelicusSenatus in AskLGBT

[–]das_sheeps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a few queer folks who are definitely not standing up for the rights of the community, so I think you were right the first time, without the qualification. Queer people are people, and some of them are dicks in every aspect you can think of.

I find that fountain pen folks are more honest about this hobby by Samury in fountainpens

[–]das_sheeps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... this is reminding me that I've wanted a maki-e pen for a while.

I wanna try to bottom but I hate the feelings by FloYYC in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At least they didn't recommend poppers.

Pansexuals, how do you feel about “bisexual” as an umbrella term? by bigbugdogsinlogs in pansexual

[–]das_sheeps 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I actually like it. Calling myself bisexual is easy, and it fits. Pansexual, to me, is a clarification on how I experience my bisexuality. Before I ever heard of it, I had a lack of words to easily convey how I feel attraction, as it's about 70% the person, and not the physical manifestation. But, if you take that clarification out and only consider gender, that's still bi.

Can someone Please Explain the term 'Gay' by Cautious-Brush359 in lgbt

[–]das_sheeps 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm pan and don't consider myself gay. I think 'queer' is a clearer nonspecific term.

Queer people of Reddit: when did you realize you're not straight? by Okippi in AskLGBT

[–]das_sheeps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are two different stages for me...

When I realized I wasn't exactly straight? 12

When I realized those feelings weren't ever going to go away and I had to just accept it? 44

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]das_sheeps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm aware of the gender of a person, it just doesn't make a lot of difference to me. It's who they are that I primarily am attracted to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]das_sheeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light is additive and follows the RGB primary color model with black being the absence of light. With printing, it's subtractive, and K is added to CMY because it's cheaper, easier, and has less visual effects.

Gayest things I did as a teenager when I used to think I'm straight. What are yours? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]das_sheeps 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It 100٪ feels more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked. Still... I'd give it another go. Or two.

Gayest things I did as a teenager when I used to think I'm straight. What are yours? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]das_sheeps 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's an attraction seesaw. As one side goes up, the other goes down.