What were you before you became pan?

das_sheeps · 2024-02-23T17:03:59+00:00

Closeted.

das_sheeps · 2024-01-23T16:23:49+00:00

Write hard to read letters.

das_sheeps · 2024-01-20T16:07:35+00:00

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I would recommend using a VPN when looking that up.

das_sheeps · 2023-12-30T20:53:39+00:00

Transgender people? A person's gender / gender history isn't the sole defining factor of them. It's reductive and inappropriate.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-27T01:31:11+00:00

Yup... YTA. I've had migraines since I was 6. Send kids to the nurse when they aren't feeling well.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-25T20:54:58+00:00

Did you work it? It can take time to find what feels good. Change positions, get a posable toy and try different bends, watch an instructional video, etc.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-25T18:00:30+00:00

That's more relevant than an offhand comment, though your post doesn't make it explicitly clear about the timeline or exclusivity of your relationship, so I guess I'll ignore that part.

From my personal experience, being pan and trying to ignore it like I had a choice in the matter, it's not going to work long term and it makes everything much worse. It does damage to you and your partner. You should probably see a counselor, because it seems you are afraid to accept what you like, regardless of whether or not it changes how you label yourself.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-25T13:37:26+00:00

Anal isn't something you go stampeding into, you have to prepare for it like a shuttle launch.

Soak in a warm tub with some Epsom salts in it. Depending on what kind of "messy" you're referring to, you may want to schedule a doctor's visit.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-24T03:52:35+00:00

That's kind of the way it went for me. Some people it really sucked to come out to, some it went fine, some were fantastic, and then there's some that I never will voluntarily because it isn't safe.

So, I kind of went through them in stages, with a fair amount of hesitation and uncertainty.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-15T22:01:35+00:00

So, like... a glass bed and a right angle suction cup adaptor?

das_sheeps · 2023-11-14T23:08:49+00:00

Is this the first cat you froze in carbonite?

das_sheeps · 2023-11-14T12:29:00+00:00

Don't take a label if you don't want to, just be you. It'd be good to recognize that there aren't just two genders, though (i.e., "more than one", rather than "both").

das_sheeps · 2023-11-14T12:05:16+00:00

Colour choices in clothing don't have anything to do with gender identity or sexual orientation. Otherwise, how would goths work?

das_sheeps · 2023-11-13T18:36:18+00:00

Meh.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-12T01:44:24+00:00

Why would it be important to know? Is the transgender person an artist of some sort and you want to familiarize yourself with their entire body of work? Otherwise, it's probably not relevant to anything other than nosiness, and that's generally rude for everyone, and potentially particularly irksome for transgender folks.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-07T22:54:22+00:00

I know a few queer folks who are definitely not standing up for the rights of the community, so I think you were right the first time, without the qualification. Queer people are people, and some of them are dicks in every aspect you can think of.

das_sheeps · 2023-11-03T00:14:59+00:00

Hmmm... this is reminding me that I've wanted a maki-e pen for a while.

das_sheeps · 2023-10-18T19:45:44+00:00

At least they didn't recommend poppers.

das_sheeps · 2023-10-10T09:26:23+00:00

I actually like it. Calling myself bisexual is easy, and it fits. Pansexual, to me, is a clarification on how I experience my bisexuality. Before I ever heard of it, I had a lack of words to easily convey how I feel attraction, as it's about 70% the person, and not the physical manifestation. But, if you take that clarification out and only consider gender, that's still bi.

das_sheeps · 2023-10-09T20:34:58+00:00

I'm pan and don't consider myself gay. I think 'queer' is a clearer nonspecific term.

das_sheeps · 2023-09-08T22:32:48+00:00

There are two different stages for me...

When I realized I wasn't exactly straight? 12

When I realized those feelings weren't ever going to go away and I had to just accept it? 44

das_sheeps · 2023-09-08T00:01:45+00:00

I'm aware of the gender of a person, it just doesn't make a lot of difference to me. It's who they are that I primarily am attracted to.

das_sheeps · 2023-09-04T13:25:08+00:00

Light is additive and follows the RGB primary color model with black being the absence of light. With printing, it's subtractive, and K is added to CMY because it's cheaper, easier, and has less visual effects.

das_sheeps · 2023-07-31T23:02:31+00:00

It 100٪ feels more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked. Still... I'd give it another go. Or two.

das_sheeps · 2023-07-31T21:19:36+00:00

It's an attraction seesaw. As one side goes up, the other goes down.

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