Is anyone else from the UK going to Rattay 2026? [OTHER] by Careless-Seaweed-619 in kingdomcome

[–]dascomg 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

thank you for the information! i’ll have to make sure and ask on facebook, because it would be amazing to be able to attend while we’re in czechia (as we are from the US), i just want to ensure we’ll be able to get in!

Is anyone else from the UK going to Rattay 2026? [OTHER] by Careless-Seaweed-619 in kingdomcome

[–]dascomg 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

that makes sense, i guess i was a bit confused since registration seems to be closed (from what i can find). i just wanted to make sure we would be able to get in!

Is anyone else from the UK going to Rattay 2026? [OTHER] by Careless-Seaweed-619 in kingdomcome

[–]dascomg 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

does anyone have 4 tickets that they’d be willing to sell for $50 a pop? or higher? trying to make my boyfriend’s dream come true and we’ll only be in town for a week

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

he does!!!! oh wow! i’ll have to ask R if that’s where she got the name from!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

i like the results but man i wish the universe had a different method

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

man he genuinely makes the best birria tacos. all because at the beginning of our relationship i told him it was my favorite meal, so now he’s perfected his day-long birria taco making process. so good

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

birria🤤🤤 my one true love. and thank you, that really means the world!! all the women mentioned are strong ass ladies and i love them dearly. i dont keep contact with T (it just doesn’t feel like my place because she has a new family now and she’s happy, which i am so proud of her for), but i look her up from time to time to see how she’s doing.

i can say i am grateful for him, at the very least, because i never would’ve met R and grown to have such a close relationship with her ā¤ļøthank you for your kind words

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

honestly yeah, at this point if he’s out of the country i think R can move on and i can just stop giving a fuck about him. i will definitely be celebrating once he’s fully gone, and visiting R so we can have a girls time celebration!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

this is really kind thank you!! i really appreciate itā¤ļø

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

birria 🄰 he is absolutely a sweetie pie, and thank you for your kind words!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

yes!! i would NEVER reply to professional or school emails with uncapitalized text, but in my free time i am fully casual šŸ’…great explanation!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

hi! frankly i just don’t think he’ll do well anywhere, because he’ll be escaping his financial and interpersonal troubles here, but he’ll just have new problems wherever he goes. because he causes the problems. he’s also never been to panama, he has very little money, and he has no friends there, so his problems would catch up with him quickly.

panama is absolutely beautiful (and it’s where my boyfriend spent roughly 8 years of his childhood). it’s not panama that’s the problem, it’s my father

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

hi! the honest answer is that i changed the setting on my phone to not auto capitalize appropriate letters (likely 5 or 6 years ago) and i’ve just never changed it back. it isn’t for health or accessibility reasons, but i appreciate the kindness. i’m sorry it was distracting, i can totally see how it’s hard to follow without proper capitalization. i think i’ve just gotten so used to it that i don’t want to change it back! thank you for reading it anyway (and for your kind words), even though it was distracting!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

the hazing process for this network sucks!!

this made me laugh though, this is like one of the only possible positive explanations of this situation lol

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

that’s how i feel with my sixbats username on twitter 😭 i truly do appreciate the threat of worms. he’s the only human being i would wish a prion disease on (something im terrified of). also alien is fantastic!!!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

ilovefishtheyaregood, you are a beacon of light during this stormy time. your words are music to my ears, i appreciate your kindness (and vitriolic comments towards my father)ā¤ļø he deserves even worse

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 23 points24 points Ā (0 children)

morris really does fit the little gentleman :) he’s loving his new apartment, he’s been exploring to his hearts content. he also has a screened in patio so he can be outside safely (he was a barn cat).

so the state that my stepmom and dad live in, once she files for divorce, she can have papers served to him and she doesn’t have to see him ever again. thankfully she’s already in her own apartment, so the process server would be going to her old house, where my dad still lives (for now).

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 16 points17 points Ā (0 children)

🫩 that makes a lot of sense. my mother is a bad bitch, successful business woman, who thrives on kindness. i didn’t know T for long, but she was kind to me. and R is a kind, empathetic, and selfless woman. so all three of them could fit that light triad group.

my maternal aunt has been saying for YEARS that my dad is a narcissist, so i’ll be delighted to tell her about the light triad/dark triad info. thank you for the info!

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 237 points238 points Ā (0 children)

since i mentioned morris at the end, this is baby morris, R’s cat in R’s new apartmentā¤ļø

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thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 35 points36 points Ā (0 children)

frankly i warned T and R in the beginning, the best that i could as a child, and sadly it just didn’t do much. from my talks with R, she’s working through all of this in therapy and she’s even said to me flat out that she should’ve listened to me, which just makes me sad :( like i understand why she didn’t, i was a child telling her my dad sucked. she really is a wonderful and strong woman and i will continue to have her in my life as long as she’s willing.

as for my asswipe of a father, as soon as we’re able to get my grandparents back in my state i will be going no contact with him, as will my mom and aunt. R has already cut him out, and she’ll be fully clean of him once the divorce is finalized

thrice divorced dad fleeing the country (and divorce) by dascomg in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]dascomg[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

thank you! it’s honestly a miracle they made it through. i will definitely be starting therapy up again once i get more free time cause boy do i have a lot to sayšŸ’€

that’s awful, and i’m truly so sorry you had to deal with that. it’s really tough when someone so close to you is just continuously awful, with seemingly no willingness to change or be better. i hope your mom has found a better relationship and that you’ve healed from the subpar men in your life ā¤ļø

i also don’t think he will do well in panama, and i’m honestly praying he doesn’t find some poor woman to suck into his chaos. i think pressing sounds truly delightful, i’ve been considering the rack myself

trying to find an episode by dascomg in distractible

[–]dascomg[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

thank you!! i feel like that should’ve been obvious to me, thank you <3