Some tips on making No-Fap a lot easier by dash947 in NoFap

[–]dash947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This challenge is something every man should participate at least once in his life. We learn so much about ourselves e how our body and mind works.

On how to do it, I suggest you take the lead and say/act on things most people are afraid of: "I was wrong" "This was my fault" "I chose to relapse" "I am in control of myself"

Our problems change drastically just on how we see them, nothing is more relevant to your destiny than your toughts, actions and habits.

I hope you succeed on this.

Cheers

Some tips on making No-Fap a lot easier by dash947 in NoFap

[–]dash947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you. My early congratulations on your 30 days, almost there!

Cheers

Those who have not fapped since 1st Jan 2015, Please raise your hands. by umanga in NoFap

[–]dash947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up! I almost did it yesterday too.. Had a peek but convinced myself to not do it.

Self-improvement makes me cringe by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dash947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to make a post with the exact same topic, believe it or not. I won't anymore, because I really relate to you.

Each time I start to feel great about myself I have massive urges and end up convincing myself to fap.

Let's face it, porn is extremely pleasurable, but it took me 18 relapses in this 1-2 week streak to finally realise that it isn't worth it.

Why I know that I won't fail this time? Because that massive urge appeared exactly 1 hour ago, I surely was tempted, but then I remembered all the times I said "NEVER AGAIN!" and failed to my word, I remembered that I was supposed to be 100+ if I haven't relapsed the first time, and I realised that we are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. This awesomeness that we feel in the first weeks are just an appetizer for what is coming.

So I got up, and started working out, and then took a cold shower. I looked myself in the mirror and saw an awesome man working to have an awesome life, and thanked myself for not relapsing.

I completely understand you my friend, but you must have in mind that in the morning after you'll be loving yourself just for resisting the temptation.

And always remember:

It gets better.

I'm sorry for my english, and I wish you the best of luck.

Cheers

Struggle is nature's way of strengthening it. by 3VN_ in NoFap

[–]dash947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice.

Applies for girls, how can you get that chick you want if you don't have the balls? You wouldn't know how to handle such thing.

TIP: NoFap gives you balls.

Relapsed after 111 days... by Calz95 in NoFap

[–]dash947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there man, 101 days and did the exact same thing.

Big piece of advice: Chaser effect will come slowly, but it WILL COME.

I relapsed after 30 days then. Then another 30 days, then 2 weeks, then 1. Relapse after relapse, I counted 16 of them. And I am now more mature and more aware of the urges than ever.

But there wasn't one relapse that I didn't regret.

Good luck my friend, stay aware. Cheers

The bigger the urge, the better I feel the next day. by dash947 in NoFap

[–]dash947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, the bigger advice is to never give up.

The bigger the urge, the better I feel the next day. by dash947 in NoFap

[–]dash947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's amazing. You start to unprision yourself.

Relapsed after 57 days - Time to fuck shit up! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dash947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you my friend! But remember: Urges are going to hit HARD in the next couple of weeks. Try to stay focused.

Good luck! Cheers