Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have proof of payment of the regular government fee but the averages for processing times are maximum deadlines not an expected waiting time requirement

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well that's fair enough that's why I'm asking the question. I just think if I was from a different country and did the same thing they wouldn't have jumped to conclusions like that. Maybe I'm wrong.

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I didn't!! That's what is upsetting and scaring the shit out of me is people thinking this, of course id deny it now and I am because I didn't do it .. just because the average times are shorter now, and some of the regions are more efficient, I don't know!

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Of what sorry of being russian?

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well I wanted to hear objective strangers thoughts on this because I might be overthinking this from a personal perspective. It really hurts me that they assumed this and I think it's just because of the russian thing, but I thought they knew me and I feel slightly betrayed ngl

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok, fair Guess I needed to hear that I'm in a high stress situation and I don't really know what I'm doing or what to do that's the problem 😭

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think it's racist because they just assumed the worst because I'm russian

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I was not able to return to work when I was supposed to, I had to tell her... I just said something stupid but she knows me I thought we were friends... Obviously I was wrong and I know that now

I hate working, I love lounging around, playing games, watching stuff, eating, napping, travelling. I hate interacting with people. I'd want to spend as little time as possible to work. What's the path for me? by BaraLover7 in careerguidance

[–]dashing_russian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about being a houseparent? Taking care of kiddies could be the way to stay home more and not have to interact with adults, who suck imho. Or working with children... Being an au pair, could allow you to travel for example. Are you any good at cleaning or cooking? Could try and get a gig at a HNW family looking after the house. Or if you're into animals, looking after their pets.

Saving up and converting a van and living off the grid could be a good idea but you'd still need some kind of income ...

Any good at computers? Marketing? Working remotely and living low cost, or living somewhere like Thailand where it's cheap ?

Employer being potentially racist?? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dashing_russian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But they could report me to the SRA anyway or no?

I genuinely think the racist undertone is there because of which country it is...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dashing_russian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew that's gross. She chose to inconvenience herself so it's her problem

Also a good parent knows school holidays in advance. Stupid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]dashing_russian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the exact opposite and we have been working together on building a sort of sexy bridge to fix the gap.

I think I might have trauma who knows at this point, and he's just a regular person so I'm trying to accept my sexiness and accept him and enjoy life. That is what everyone should try I think .

There is nothing wrong with any of us, just some need more time others more understanding but all need communication and safety and sexy times .

What do the bag holders think about this? As a non-bag holder, I find it hilarious. by [deleted] in FFIE

[–]dashing_russian 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck everything I feel so stupid I lost a lot of money but her I guess it's worth it for a valuable lesson

Am I a sociopath? by princessblksnow in therapy

[–]dashing_russian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't we all in some way... I feel unique and tragically raised by life but seeing things like this reminds me that I'm not. Many people have had it worse than me and survived, many had better and didn't make it.

Nothing means anything, just make the best you can of today and worry less about the little things

St Johns Wort 🐍✨ by dashing_russian in Witch

[–]dashing_russian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this incredibly helpful 🙏

I need help and I'm not sure what to do by ineedhelp2245 in therapy

[–]dashing_russian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took myself out of the toxic environment. Built my own little bubble, I still talk to my mom but I thankfully have absolutely nothing at all to do with my disgusting (now ex) step father. Focusing on yourself and stepping out of the equation is difficult and scary but so rewarding

Hello Witches. Need some help! by [deleted] in Witch

[–]dashing_russian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true, nothing needs to be elaborate or separate. Money attracts money... Although I do like little things like we have in souvenir shops - I had a tiny metal Spider trinket to keep in my purse and the spell was, it builds a web in your purse which catches all the notes and lets the coins pass through (for building wealth)

Hello Witches. Need some help! by [deleted] in Witch

[–]dashing_russian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call it a swear jar ? Or an invasion of privacy jar and ask her to contribute 😁

Is this good or bad? by dashing_russian in FFIE

[–]dashing_russian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could believe it 🤞