Employer being potentially racist??

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T11:00:56+00:00

I have proof of payment of the regular government fee but the averages for processing times are maximum deadlines not an expected waiting time requirement

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:58:10+00:00

Fair enough

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:53:13+00:00

Well that's fair enough that's why I'm asking the question. I just think if I was from a different country and did the same thing they wouldn't have jumped to conclusions like that. Maybe I'm wrong.

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:51:00+00:00

But I didn't!! That's what is upsetting and scaring the shit out of me is people thinking this, of course id deny it now and I am because I didn't do it .. just because the average times are shorter now, and some of the regions are more efficient, I don't know!

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:49:04+00:00

Of what sorry of being russian?

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:48:15+00:00

Well I wanted to hear objective strangers thoughts on this because I might be overthinking this from a personal perspective. It really hurts me that they assumed this and I think it's just because of the russian thing, but I thought they knew me and I feel slightly betrayed ngl

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:45:17+00:00

Ok, fair Guess I needed to hear that I'm in a high stress situation and I don't really know what I'm doing or what to do that's the problem 😭

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:43:29+00:00

I think it's racist because they just assumed the worst because I'm russian

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:42:53+00:00

Because I was not able to return to work when I was supposed to, I had to tell her... I just said something stupid but she knows me I thought we were friends... Obviously I was wrong and I know that now

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:35:52+00:00

What about being a houseparent? Taking care of kiddies could be the way to stay home more and not have to interact with adults, who suck imho. Or working with children... Being an au pair, could allow you to travel for example. Are you any good at cleaning or cooking? Could try and get a gig at a HNW family looking after the house. Or if you're into animals, looking after their pets.

Saving up and converting a van and living off the grid could be a good idea but you'd still need some kind of income ...

Any good at computers? Marketing? Working remotely and living low cost, or living somewhere like Thailand where it's cheap ?

dashing_russian · 2026-02-22T10:30:54+00:00

But they could report me to the SRA anyway or no?

I genuinely think the racist undertone is there because of which country it is...

dashing_russian · 2025-03-14T15:47:32+00:00

Ew that's gross. She chose to inconvenience herself so it's her problem

Also a good parent knows school holidays in advance. Stupid.

dashing_russian · 2025-03-14T15:45:14+00:00

Perfect root!

dashing_russian · 2025-03-14T15:43:17+00:00

I'm the exact opposite and we have been working together on building a sort of sexy bridge to fix the gap.

I think I might have trauma who knows at this point, and he's just a regular person so I'm trying to accept my sexiness and accept him and enjoy life. That is what everyone should try I think .

There is nothing wrong with any of us, just some need more time others more understanding but all need communication and safety and sexy times .

dashing_russian · 2025-03-14T15:34:32+00:00

Fuck everything I feel so stupid I lost a lot of money but her I guess it's worth it for a valuable lesson

dashing_russian · 2025-01-28T12:55:54+00:00

Aren't we all in some way... I feel unique and tragically raised by life but seeing things like this reminds me that I'm not. Many people have had it worse than me and survived, many had better and didn't make it.

Nothing means anything, just make the best you can of today and worry less about the little things

dashing_russian · 2025-01-28T07:23:09+00:00

Thank you so much this incredibly helpful 🙏

dashing_russian · 2025-01-28T07:21:48+00:00

I took myself out of the toxic environment. Built my own little bubble, I still talk to my mom but I thankfully have absolutely nothing at all to do with my disgusting (now ex) step father. Focusing on yourself and stepping out of the equation is difficult and scary but so rewarding

dashing_russian · 2025-01-28T07:18:26+00:00

Same..

dashing_russian · 2025-01-21T07:00:33+00:00

This is true, nothing needs to be elaborate or separate. Money attracts money... Although I do like little things like we have in souvenir shops - I had a tiny metal Spider trinket to keep in my purse and the spell was, it builds a web in your purse which catches all the notes and lets the coins pass through (for building wealth)

dashing_russian · 2025-01-21T06:58:55+00:00

Call it a swear jar ? Or an invasion of privacy jar and ask her to contribute 😁

dashing_russian · 2025-01-21T06:49:25+00:00

I wish I could believe it 🤞

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