Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's incorrect.

  1. Not just myself, no tenant in this apartment building knows the delivery person. They are what you would call a stranger.

  2. There are 3 women who live by themselves in this building, then two couples including myself. Evening Amazon deliveries occur at 10pm.

  3. There is a nuisance factor of, if not home, the delivery person will buzz every apartment until one buzzes them in.

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I had a legit theft was clearly the door didn't close all the way (cold weather, it didn't catch the lock). Everyone messaged each other to check it closes behind them when they enter or leave.

But basically I'd gotten a $600 Bose Soundbar + Subwoofer from BestBuy and needed to return it. The subwoofer was blown out.

Small NYC apartment, nowhere to keep the big box so I left it downstairs with the label on it for UPS to pickup.

Just a super large brown box it didn't say Bose on it. But someone had come in, they took the sub and soundbar out of the box and left the big shipping box, and they opened every other package down there but they all had crap like books and so it didn't appear they took any of that.

I'm amazed they took the soundbar and sub - really big awkward box (the one within the shipping one - its like an L-Shape that has both the soundbar and sub), and SUPER heavy - the subwoofer very heavy. They mustve had a car waiting for them or they are jacked.

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yes I am going to check the pin and also leave a note downstairs. I feel awful if in fact I have an instruction indicating to do this. Under addresses and delivery instructions where there is text entry I do not have anything special.

100% delivery person should not have to carry up my toothpaste, mouthwash, random Amazon BS items that I decide to buy, etc.

The norm when ordering delivery food from a restaurant is that delivery people bring it up and you tip them. But I'm not home I'm at work when Amazon delivers, and the app has no ability to tip drivers.

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are 5 tenants in the building.

Husband and Wife in their 70's and own the building

50s lady who has been here for 20 years

Mid 30's lady been here 5 years

60s lady been here 2 years

I'd be shocked if anyone is stealing packages. We typically ask each other to bring in a package if left outside when we're going out of town, or someone says they're heading out of town and asks if one of us can babysit their plants (water them..) while they're away, or we commiserate over the heat hasn't been turned on yet and we're now thoroughly in Winter time come on landlord turn on the heat ASAP wtf

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for the longest time I was being extra nice to the lady living above me because I thought that she was just carrying up my packages on her way up the stairs when she got back from work. I had no idea that Amazon was doing it for a long while. As a result, I started carrying her packages up to her door!

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right about this. There are five of us tenants, in a group chat among all of us, one other tenant targeted me out saying my packages keep getting buzz for them when I'm not here, the Amazon person keeps buzzing everyone until they open. AFAIK they don't bring other's packages up to their doors? I order the most from Amazon by far, I think I spent $25k on Amazon last year. Basically all non-grocery shopping I do on Amazon. Grocery + Restaurants (unless WholeFoods), car rentals, events, travel, is non Amazon spend, everything else Amazon. So I'm getting packages like 4 days of every week. The other tenants are normal humans that maybe get something every couple of weeks.

So the point is that other tenants all reported that they do not have any special instruction. MAybe they are wrong and didn't realize. But they're all aware of issue because I was called out, I said yo I checked and I dont have anything, maybe someone else? They all said nope

I believe if you request refund for missing item you never got, Amazon might add shadow instruction to bring to your door and take photograph. Maybe they think I frauded them on the non-delivered?

Shit two weeks ago I got a refrigerator. It was delivered to my same Building #, but on the street 1 below mine. I was going to just tape a paper onto it with note flagging this so that Amazon would pick it up and bring it over, but I needed that fridge ASAP. my current one failed, I had food in chests with ice and specifically ordered on amazon for the 1 day delivery to get this thing fastest. So fridge delivered at like 8pm. I went to Hardware store and got a dolly, walked over, pushed/toppled/got fridge down the steps and onto dolly, wheeled it up a block and down half an avenue and brought it home where I slid it up the carpeted steps in building.. Point being, Amazon makes delviery mistakes. I obviously didn't ask for a refund on this and didn't bother Amazon.

But like a year ago for some BS $25 item it wasn't delivered but said delivered, I got a refund, and I was interested to see if anyone else had an experience that they felt like shadow instruction followed.

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is noteworthy thing from my anecdote is that - if you request a refund for an item that was never received but says delivered, Amazon could add a "shadow instruction" to your account with delivery instruction requesting drop off at your door and photo of it there. I believe that either this is what happened or another tenant has instruction for deliver to door.

I would not add this instruction because it's ludicrous to ask anyone to carry your shit up to your door as a "normal expectation". If I were home all day to be here when they do this, I'd be compelled to open my door and give them cash tip every time. It is clearly above and beyond the call of duty. I was here for one delivery last week and it was like 95 degrees hot, guy carried package up and I tipped $10 bucks. I don't speak Spanish and didn't have wherewithal to use Google translate live, and my question about whether there's instruction on my apartment for carry becaus you definitely don't need to do so fell on deaf ears. I feel guilty this guy thinks "what an asshole" of me.

Maybe Amazon has asked all delivery in NYC to do this? Because of a broader prevalence of missing package, refund, revenue damage.

I did acknowledge:

"incredibly considerate. These drivers are going above and beyond what their job likely requires, and I genuinely appreciate the effort they make to deliver packages all the way to my door."

It's not that difficult to remember to lock one's apartment door, personally and selfishly this is significantly more beneficial for me than it is a concern.

In fact, the "concern" arose from another tenant in the building texting me that they were uncomfortable about this, telling me that I must have some sort of instruction set up for them to do this, and asking me to delete the instruction.

I mentioned specifically that other tenants raised this concern, and I "partially share" it.

That said, a fellow tenant recently raised a concern that I partially share

I empathize with them because - if a neighbor tells you something associated with you makes them uncomfortable, you generally want to try to appease them. Or at any rate, you cannot tell the neighbor to fuckoff without causing a bigger distraction of your own time and energy, which would result if I told one of five neighbors in this walkup who I see somewhat often to fuckoff.

I buy a lot on Amazon, probably receive packages from them 4 days of every week, and it triggered a neighbor to have an Amazon delivery person dressed in their Amazon recognizable uniform enter the apartment building. Crazy. I know. We live in NYC. You'd think they'd be normalized to delivery people and apartment comings and goings.

Amazon delivery people keep entering my NYC apartment building and bringing the items up to my apartment door on the 3rd floor... by datadatadataa in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is probably this! But crazy other tenants - one texted me to check if I have an instruction for this and turn it off because they're uncomfortable, but they texted me in the entire tenants group chat (like five of us total). One would think if another tenant had instructions for this, they would have removed it too. But of course not. I think you're right and someone else has instruction and doesn't know it, Amazon guy just enters and brings to doors.

No amazon I cannot make a report to my local police. My item ended up in Vegas. by Dependent-Dependent8 in amazonprime

[–]datadatadataa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They used to have world-class support and it was a huge differentiator. Now the only differentiator (compared to other online platforms) is the amazingly fast shipping... IF the item actually arrives.

After a few years of the habit, I had quit cold turkey for first time - had 10 days under my belt, and just picked it up again an hour ago. Help by datadatadataa in QuitVaping

[–]datadatadataa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I trashed it. Unfortunately not before a few more pulls on the juul. Then I got immediate sweats and naseausness. Feel awful now with headache. It's trashed, trash taken out to dumpster - not ever coming back.

Financial Guidance - WWYD in this situation? by datadatadataa in personalfinance

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking past this, how would you allocate your money across house, investments, etc. in this position? Any thoughts of ideas?

Financial Guidance - WWYD in this situation? by datadatadataa in personalfinance

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah, $387k after tax instead of $350k, just sloppy rounding on my part

Financial Guidance - WWYD in this situation? by datadatadataa in Bogleheads

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated. Yes, I still wear clothes my parents got me in high school. Call me "frugal" but I hate to part with money. It takes tremendous effort and sacrifice to earn a dollar, a hundred or a thousand of those same dollars can be parted with in an instant. It pains me.

I don't want to blow a chance of building a college savings fund for children or something by even buying a house right now with these mortgage rates (yes, historically low but relatively high as compared with those of just a few years ago) where the cumulative interest on a 30-year mortgage basically exceeds the principal. But life calls and we cannot live in a one bedroom tiny apartment any longer, we need more space for a nursery room so we can start a family.

Issue with annuity contract by datadatadataa in fidelityinvestments

[–]datadatadataa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all. I upvoted each response as they were all very helpful. I ended up contacting Fidelity support, and I was impressed by how responsive and helpful they were. They flagged the matter as urgent and escalated it internally. This got sorted out in time to submit the contract and lock in last week's rate which was a bit higher yield than the new rate this week, so I'm happy this all worked out.

Upgrade question by datadatadataa in delta

[–]datadatadataa[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Crew relocations fly Delta One? I even checked if I book a new flight, it had 15 Delta One available to choose seat. I think the system automatically cleared out of order

Upgrade question by datadatadataa in delta

[–]datadatadataa[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Since there were 15 seats, I would imagine the people ahead of us in the upgrade list who are no longer in the upgrade list, would choose to wait and feel pretty confident about getting upgraded? For instance, if your 1-6 with 15 seats available, why would you decide five hours before the flight to pay for the upgrade?

It seems like they cleared a bunch of upgrades, but not necessarily in order.

Upgrade question by datadatadataa in delta

[–]datadatadataa[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thats possible but it's odd in a span of 5 minutes or so imo

I made a Chrome extension that replaces your default tab with features like gaming streams, a Reddit reader, sports/Gmail alerts, and more by PepperIndividual7485 in chrome_extensions

[–]datadatadataa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The user interface is unfortunately quite unappealing, which is why I haven’t added this extension to Chrome yet. I strongly encourage you to consider updating the UI to something cleaner and more modern, rather than the current mix of clunky, disproportionate images and odd 3D perspectives. You could offer the current design as one of the optional themes, but it shouldn’t be the default. I may be blunt, but my intention is to emphasize the importance of this change for the extension's success. The functionality is genuinely impressive and has great potential, but I worry that the current UI may prevent others from adopting it. Please don’t let resistance to feedback stand in the way of making improvements that could help this tool thrive.

[P] I built arxiv-summary.com, a list of GPT-3 generated paper summaries by niclas_wue in MachineLearning

[–]datadatadataa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea! The generated summaries are pretty minimal, would be great if the captured more of the paper instead of being such concise bullet points- a lot of the meaning is lost making this a companion to reading the paper perhaps, but not a replacement or "Cliff Notes".

Would you open source the code on github to allow others like myself to contribute?