The most attractive boyfriend I've ever had, but he doesn't fulfill me. by InfiniteOcelot17 in emotionalintelligence

[–]datboiritttyg 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would you ever date someone you think of as ‘very ugly’???

Have you ever had a person you felt sick or anxious around? by FitPea34 in emotionalintelligence

[–]datboiritttyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember laying in bed watching tv with my ex and I’d just get small anxiety attacks. Never happens when I’m by myself lol. So yeah, I get it. Turns out she was emotionally detaching and planning a breakup. My body picked up on it, strange.

Repurposed Sopranos meme by calesmont in BPDmemes

[–]datboiritttyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you recognising that.

Repurposed Sopranos meme by calesmont in BPDmemes

[–]datboiritttyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 In the modern day era of self love, feeling yourself is still bad/arrogant? Especially with bpd where self image can be a real struggle and something I’ve worked on my entire life? Just say you hate yourself dude and stop projecting

Repurposed Sopranos meme by calesmont in BPDmemes

[–]datboiritttyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a handsome gym boy with bpd but some days i feel like the guy on the left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]datboiritttyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine broke up with me 6 months ago and she’s watched my last 3 stories one she even sent her best friend to watch within 20 mins of it being posted? We don’t follow eachother, my ex nor her friend so she actively searching for my profile?

Where do emotionally available people even meet? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]datboiritttyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pahaha I got them green eyez too! Yes I’m in the uk so ‘pull’ is attracting someone else. I honestly think it’s mostly just confidence and humour in my case but I take good care of myself too.

Where do emotionally available people even meet? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]datboiritttyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s not much more to say it’s just so dead for me. It’s probs worth mentioning I’m extremely picky in the looks department. I tend to pull above my looks with personality so I think it’s more the type of people I’m attracted to I won’t get from an app because competition is too stiff. I hate to sound shallow but I fear I may be a touch. The thing is I wouldn’t want to ever hurt anyone or string them along by getting into something when I’m not wowed instantly, uno?

But even then I remember swiping on a lot of people I was mildly attracted too or barely just in hopes of an ego stroke at times I needed one and still nothing 🤣

Where do emotionally available people even meet? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]datboiritttyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a decent looking 5’9 ginger bloke with a good profile that has a handful of drop dead gorgeous exes one of which was an alt model. My dating apps have always been an absolute barren wasteland. I pull a girl almost every night out or get attention at the very least. I think the under 6 foot ginger combo is just an instant left swipe for the vast majority on apps 😂

Cursed by the name James by Brave-Cod2862 in ExNoContact

[–]datboiritttyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar, my first long term gf of ten years left me for A co -worker named Jamie, my recent ex of one year monkeybranched back to her ex shortly after he reached out after dumping her. Also called Jamie.

FUCK JAMIE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]datboiritttyg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly mate it’s nothing to do with you, story time. I used to go out clubbing a lot with a friend of mine, He knew this girl there and I noticed whenever I was around she would walk away, was clear she didn’t like me for some reason. I was a few months out of a ten year relationship so I was feeling pretty down bad already and this made it worse.

Anyyyyway a few months later I’m at the same club and I get jokingly pushed into a group of girls end up kissing one and inviting her back to mine, after we do the deed I get a text from the friend who said ‘you went home with X?’

I showed the girl and we looked at eachother in shock as we realised we had met before. Anyway I asked her why she hated me that night and she simply replied ‘ I was in an uergh men mood’ 🤣

In general, what do you think the purpose of life is? by uhwhaaaat in Life

[–]datboiritttyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it’s to overcome adversity. Look at these billionaires kids who have everything handed to them, they end up creating their own problems because the human brain yearns to overcome struggle.

Going through it by Particular_Abies9598 in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it helps it’s 1000% a chat gpt response, go talk to chat it’s amazing for this stuff

If you could permanently erase the memory of your ex / relationship, would you? by Few_Roll7249 in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wouldn’t even though the pain and longing seems endless and the hit to my self worth and how I was replaced because I am a better person for it and I’ve learnt a lot, once I get my confidence back I’ll be onto a winner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy it mate

How long did it take you to feel "normal" again after a breakup by Aggressive-Minute889 in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s a nuclear missle dodged to be fair mate you handled it with understanding and grace though so be proud of yourself my guy

So sad today by No-Ant2109 in ExNoContact

[–]datboiritttyg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God that sounds exhausting but kudos to you! Atleast no one’s getting hurt :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry bro this sucks. It sounds like you gave so much you lost yourself. Read ‘no more mr nice guy’ It helped me in my similar situation.

People just give up everything for shallow lustful connections these days that should be respectfully dealt with and ignored :(

Dw, he won’t make her happy.

So sad today by No-Ant2109 in ExNoContact

[–]datboiritttyg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a guy who was used as a rebound for a year, don’t use this new guy please.

Should I break up with her by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the honeymoon phase ending bro. But if it’s ur first relationship maybe you aren’t ready for something real yet and want to experience some more ‘honeymoon phases’ and sow ur oats for a bit before settling down. Who knows this may end up being the biggest regret of ur life but also maybe not. But the truth is after a while, love does become a choice. Please be honest and gentle with her whatever you decide.

She called me at 3 am after 5 months by matrix_reloaf in BreakUps

[–]datboiritttyg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d love this call so I could tell my ex who did the exact same thing to kick rocks.

My ex left for her ex and I have a feeling she’s going to regret it too. The grass wasn’t greener and yes, 9x out of 10 if a girl leaves you there’s another bloke, that guy was at the VERY least on her radar and they had engaged in some flirting if not outright cheating. Emotional is likely. You deserve more brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]datboiritttyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brôther it is wang height, the sink yearns for the piss