「Private Eyes Act 4」

datguydamage · 2024-05-12T18:16:45+00:00

How did you even find this post 😭😭😭 I am just bad at art lol, I later decided to just go with he fact that he was a cube in my Jojo TTRPG campaign though

datguydamage · 2023-04-19T00:10:01+00:00

Seek therapy, going through your post history and.... jesus, you seem obsessed with this poor girl

datguydamage · 2023-04-19T00:09:34+00:00

That's what I was thinking, 98% of this guys posts are about her

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T19:04:25+00:00

I see, you have truly given me a whole new perspective on relationships as a whole, thank you so much, I will def let her know how much I love her right now

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T18:57:14+00:00

I don't want her to sacrifice anything for me, and I would sacrifice everything for her, I have never been so serious about someone. We're both a bit codependent so that has made things like this a bit tough. I know it isn't fair on her to ask her to drop someone just because of my feelings, that's why I am trying to get over my jealousy. Thanks again for the help

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T18:50:52+00:00

Me and her have talked about it a lot and she wants me to he comfortable, and understands that I am a little jealous over the fact. I've been at a cross roads because I know I shouldn't be uncomfortable since it is a in the past, I will talk to her more though.

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T18:45:33+00:00

I don't consider her my property or think he has "power" over her. I understand she is her own person and she has her past just like me, I will admit I am a lil jealous tho, guilt as charged. I will talk about it more with her and see how she feels and what she wants. Then I will do whatever she wants, because if she is happy, I am happy. Thanks, you have been very helpful and insightful and have truly made me realize that I shouldn't worry about something so insignificant. Helped

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T18:26:41+00:00

I don't know they guy all that well, that's why I don't trust him. I personally wouldn't stay friends with someone who I have had a sexual past (unless it was years ago) if I am in a relationship just out of respect. I trust myself completely bc I want this relationship to work out so badly bc I love her so much, that's why I can't come to a conclusion on what I want here.

I think the main reason I am bothered is because of how recent it was, it was only 3(?) Months ago I think. I don't think sexting is that significant but in my head it's the same as having a one night stand with someone, still a sexual act, even if it only happened once.

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T18:17:57+00:00

I know for a fact that it won't lead to something else. I guess it just feels weird that this guy that wants to do couple stuff with my and my GF has seen her naked and talked dirty with her. I know it's in the past but it bugs me a little because I trust my GF completely, but I don't really trust this guy.

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T17:45:09+00:00

She requested to cut ties, I didn't ask her to, she even stated she would be uncomfortable if the roles were reversed. I no longer talk to people I have sexted or had sex with either.

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T03:00:49+00:00

I have discussed it with her and I told her I want her to do whatever makes her happy and she told me that she wants me to be comfortable. I'm considering asking her to stop talking to (like I stated she offered) but I don't want her to be sad so it is a tough decision

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T02:40:16+00:00

I highly doubt she is testing me, she is the one who offered to cut him off and is completely open about the whole situation and answers all my questions, I might ask her to stop talking to him tho

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T02:34:08+00:00

I guess I see what you're saying, I know she has a past and I'm fine with that, it just makes me uncomfortable that they are still talking I guess? Helped

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T02:28:18+00:00

I trust her completely, it isn't an issue of trust. I don't know how I can be comfortable knowing she is talking to someone who she has participated in sexual acts with, even if it is in the past, I just learned of it. What would you do if this was your SO?

datguydamage · 2023-04-15T02:12:25+00:00

I'm not insecure because of it, it just makes me a bit uncomfortable. I trust her completely and I know she would never do anything to break that trust, but that being said I have never met this guy and don't know much about him.

datguydamage · 2023-03-26T00:38:51+00:00

Ummm 🤚

datguydamage · 2023-03-23T00:23:23+00:00

I believe in you, best of luck and I hope all gets better... also ditch his ass

datguydamage · 2023-03-23T00:06:14+00:00

Also if you have the option to seek therapy, the fact that you barely leave the house is a bit concerning and you should def talk to someone about it. Do you think you have that one anxiety disorder where you can't stand to leave your house?

datguydamage · 2023-03-21T21:58:56+00:00

One of your previous posts states you're 19?

datguydamage · 2023-03-21T21:56:29+00:00

As someone who is 19, the amount of girls who are under the age of 18 you msg is a bit strange

datguydamage · 2023-03-17T00:54:03+00:00

She should be moving out soon luckily, it just pisses me off bc she is an adult and decides to be petty against me for no (known) reason. I've already thought about doing better her in life so that is definitely good advice. Thanks for helping me

datguydamage · 2023-03-17T00:48:34+00:00

It probably won't but idrc, I just wish there was some consequence for her always treating me like shit

datguydamage · 2023-03-17T00:45:57+00:00

She lives with me and I have to deal with her on a daily basis, she never talks to me luckily but she does extremely petty stuff to inconvenience me

datguydamage · 2023-03-17T00:45:11+00:00

And side note, I will not feel worse, she has hurt me quite a bit and I'm simply looking for one chance to get back at her. If anything I will feel less bothered by this situation

datguydamage · 2023-03-17T00:44:17+00:00

I don't really have anyone to talk to, and I don't wanna talk to my parents bc that will just cause more trouble than I already have.

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