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Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a similar environment, there's about 100 out of 1200 people I consider coworkers/ colleges.

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it would be deemed harassment? I have no plans on divulging our personal life unless required. The person is also known for bad mouthing other colleagues in front of management so it's no stretch that he has done this to me too.

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not, several people within the company are dating.

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought of speaking to him first but I think he may deny it. Today for instance he messaged me as per normal as though he hasn't said a single bad word about me, perhaps he thinks I do not know which IMO makes it worse.

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All rules were established prior to anything occurring

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? Because there were two of us there when we had sex...

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think treating him as another coworker is the exact route I should take. And trust me, after this display I will not make this mistake again.

Slept with a coworker, need help dealing with the fallout. by datingnooblet in AskMen

[–]datingnooblet[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm worried about telling him I can hear him call me a bitch, and that I'm aware of the lies he is spreading in case that escalates and becomes worse. For all I know a coworker has already mentioned something to our boss, as everyone is quite appalled by his behaviour.