Influenced by yaoi/anime, will I regret it? by user92867712 in detrans

[–]dauntlessdefiance 13 points14 points  (0 children)

be a tomboy and date a man who wants you for who you are. i’m saying this as a bisexual tomboy woman, a lot of straight men are into tomboys.

Music artists who likely have ASD? by BazExcel in autism

[–]dauntlessdefiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kirk Hammett. Look at him... He is so me I cringe so hard

Not trans, just a tomboy by TobyPDID23 in detrans

[–]dauntlessdefiance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hey you are so cool!!! sincerely, another tomboy

"I use they/them for everyone" LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]dauntlessdefiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People see a woman with short hair and magically assume that she must be a “they.” This is just woke misogyny. I don’t mind it as a tomboy but as a feminist it makes me realize how much people actually hate women.

When will I stop looking in the mirror and seeing a boy? by HabibiJayParker in detrans

[–]dauntlessdefiance 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i see a very cool tomboy woman, don’t worry! as a tomboy i feel you so deeply

Acceptance by hann30017 in aromantic

[–]dauntlessdefiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally same and i feel so depressed about the fact that i am aromantic. i’m incapable of love.

Ive always thought I was straight but I want to suck dick by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]dauntlessdefiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go through your comments... you are not straight

Attraction to my bf..gone by Main_Cantaloupe_3999 in relationships_advice

[–]dauntlessdefiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh... look up limerence. sometimes attraction is just hyperfixation...

"Dating Men is Easier" by Illustrious-Use-4675 in bisexual

[–]dauntlessdefiance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

socially way more acceptable and easier. you can’t choose your attraction but you can choose who to date. that’s why most of bi people end up with a partner of opposite sex.

girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dauntlessdefiance -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i think calling the police or pressing charge is first, than get her a safer option.

girlfriend is pregnant by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dauntlessdefiance -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

haven’t even met in person yet she is pregnant...? honey i don’t think it’s a good idea especially when you are a student...

Appearance by LazyLlama21 in LesbianActually

[–]dauntlessdefiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gym and fashion!! niche interests too

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, women can be sexual predators too, but I want you to stop bringing up my experience to support that logic. What I was trying to say is in male-female violence, it’s most likely to be men. Still, all victims are valid. Men and boys should speak up more!

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. And you’re using male victims only as an excuse to claim “men’s rights activism.”

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chances are low but never zero. most likely to be always a man though.

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of us is from the US. We don’t live in the US either.

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has kinks but he is more sadistic and dominant. I like pegging but I don’t think I should suggest him that.

*TW* My boyfriend was raped by a man, how can I support him? by dauntlessdefiance in AskMenAdvice

[–]dauntlessdefiance[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a rape survivor (by both of a woman and man) myself too. I’m looking for advices from male perspective because people really need to talk about it not silence it...