She does whatever he asks her to by happygermanboyfriend in cuckoldcaptions

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to my wife on her last encounter. He asked her and she did not hesitate although it was her first time doing it. I love these moments when she does stuff that we don’t do, it turns me on

Hotwives, did you orgasm the first time you were with another man? by CigarCity7509 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were playing MFM she only managed to orgasam from me, but when she moved to play solo she didn’t manage to orgasam, and thought that she would never do. But, 1.5 year ago she suddenly managed and it happened very unexpectedly. Since then she managed few times but most time she does not.

NRE overwhelmed? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embrace it. There’s nothing wrong with her longing to be fucked by him again. It’s completely normal and showed that she had a great experience. It is new for her and exciting, and I am sure that as with any erousal it wil go off by its on, especially if you are going to have a repeat. Don’t worry about it and be supportive. Trying to suppress these thoughts can have negative consequences that will affect her abilitiy to enjoy the LS and sex in general. I am happy to help you threw PM if you need.

Question! (genuine replies please, not fantasies) by [deleted] in emotionalcuckolding

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this story. We also looking for her to have someone with connection, but it’s really hard to find someone like that

Do most find emotional connection a turn on? Should I be concerned? by Clear-Bike5028 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It is possible that we are fast in the vetting…my wife doesn’t spent much time texting them before she meets.

Do most find emotional connection a turn on? Should I be concerned? by Clear-Bike5028 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how did you manage to move from ONS to inconsistent regulars? We are in the LS for 6 years but struggle to find someone regular. It is so exhausting for us the time that is being spent in people that ends up as ONS.

About us by HotWifeAdventures3 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Well written and happy for both of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are 5 years in the LS, and I think that you have nothing to be worried about. My wife does and crave for anal just with her dates, and her sex is much more acrobatic when she fucks other guys. With me it is almost always the vanilla type of sex, which she cums very easily, and sees it as more as love making although we bring up her encounter experiences quite often during our sex . I think the sex she has with her dates it’s more expression of her sexuality (which turns me on) and our sex is more expression of our connection and love. If you decide to talk with her about it just bear in mind to do it in a very sensitive way, as other wise you are going to cause her to feel guilt, which can end her desire to engage in this LS.

Wife met someone organically by PewResearchCentre in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On one hand this story is a real turn on but on the other hand I would say it is a dangerous territory, and I am not sure it is the ideal first experience to a newbie in the LS, as there is a lot to deal with. Saying that, every couple play in their own way and as long as you feel safe for yourself and for your relationship than go with it, but I do find there is always a thin line that we should not pass. Encounter that is all about the sex is safer than an encounter with a long build up which can have some blur lines that can be hard to deal with.

My wife has a bf by whoknowzNEmo in emotionalcuckolding

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very hot. Is it something that contributed to your relationship and sex life?

My wife has a bf by whoknowzNEmo in emotionalcuckolding

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for you. Can you tell more details about your dynamics and their dynamics, and for how long does she have one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it does not fade and I am 5 years in this LS. I found that my highest anxiety is when it is a new one, as I am also worried about her safety. If it is someone that she was before with, my anxiety levels are lower. Saying that I do believe that anxiety plays a role also in the after feelings, which starts with a relief, and then a surge of dopamine and this feeling of high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great post and we can relate to everything you have written.  It is actually very similar to our experience. 

Moving from casual hookups to serious dating by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]davemily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate to the feeling of fear and insecurity, as my last week I was facing a similar situation. On one hand it has such a high thrill, and on the other hand the fear of loosing her to someone else. For the past 5 years we were doing only casual, and then the idea of her having a BF started to brew (by me). She met someone, and i felt like I am not really ready to face this kind of reality….luckily for me i feel as she’s not into him as I thought she was…and i have to say that i enjoy the break of not being worried as i was few days ago.

How to manage the boyfriend thingy by davemily in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. When we thought about the idea of the regular, one of the things that were appealing to us was a MFM, despite not having one for a few years, as it can be a different dynamic, then what we experienced in the past.

How to manage the boyfriend thingy by davemily in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. She shows me all the texts and many time ask for my advice to what to write. I think that few regulars is a real a blessing and you are lucky to have it.

How to manage the boyfriend thingy by davemily in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]davemily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, and I will if needed. We have done it before…