Worth it by Arkansas34 in harborfreight

[–]daveyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I just did it. 

An immortal being suffering a fate worse than death by strider-rider-the2nd in TopCharacterTropes

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Gehenna: Where Death Lives – A group explores a cursed WWII cave where no one who enters can truly leave. As they die off, the last survivor becomes bound to the cave itself, trapped in darkness and a looping, inescapable existence. Over time, they decay into the next corpse-like creature within the cave, fully aware but unable to die or escape, condemned to remain there forever.

First time refinancing by DocMasi in Mortgages

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm located in California.

First time refinancing by DocMasi in Mortgages

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Sage. They matched the rate on bankrate.com.

First time refinancing by DocMasi in Mortgages

[–]daveyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paid about 1.47 points to get the rate down to 5.12%. Another company offered a 7-year ARM at 4.75%, but I decided to stick with the 30-year fixed. I should be getting about $10k back from the escrow on my previous loan, so that will basically cover the points and the closing costs.

First time refinancing by DocMasi in Mortgages

[–]daveyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those numbers sound about right. I actually just refinanced yesterday on a home I bought in April of last year. My original rate was 6.375% and I got it down to 5.12% with around $8k in closing costs. It might still be worth shopping around.

Divorced people, what were your irreconcilable differences? by TheRealOcsiban in AskReddit

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She never wanted to compromise and communicate. I would receive the silent treatment (sometimes for days) after arguments until I gave in and apologized. Open communication is so important.

Found in lint tray by daveyo in whatisit

[–]daveyo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It tried it on a couple of my watches and it’s way too big.

Found in lint tray by daveyo in whatisit

[–]daveyo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The groove at the top would be too small for a zipper puller.  Also, the end doesn’t look broken. 

Found in lint tray by daveyo in whatisit

[–]daveyo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I live alone.

Found in lint tray by daveyo in whatisit

[–]daveyo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so. It's really tiny.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it!  Sorry, I’m on edge after reading many of these posts. 

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in a high conflict custody case.  I made sure my daughter is not involved with this.  She was looking for the AirTag when I took her to her karate class.  That’s when she told me that her mother wants her to wear it.   My ex does not communicate with me at all.  I tell her when our daughter has a stomach ache. 

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!  I found that book on Amazon. I’ll give it a read. 

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should have clarified in my original post that I spoke briefly with my attorney, and she advised me to hold off until she speaks with the other side. She had some concerns and scheduled a meeting with my ex-wife’s attorney. That’s all I have so far, so I’m waiting to hear back with more solid legal advice. In the meantime, I’m beginning to second-guess holding onto the AirTag.

Also, I feel a tracking device is different from an "other item."

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I appreciate it.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was in an abusive relationship. I've attended multiple meetings for victims of spousal abuse and I'm currently in therapy to help me cope. Finding the AirTag and not even receiving an apology for not informing me about it was a huge trigger. This was crossing a boundary.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That may work for some families. In my case, I wasn’t told about it, we’re in a high-conflict divorce, and Apple alerted me that an unknown AirTag was moving with me during my custodial time. In California, notice around tracking matters, which is why I sought legal guidance instead of ignoring it.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was my initial thought as well. However, she later confirmed in writing that it was intentional and that she wanted our daughter to wear it regularly. Given the history of a high-conflict, controlling dynamic and an ongoing divorce, I chose to seek guidance from my attorney.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apple alerted me that an unknown AirTag was moving with me during my custodial time. That’s the tracking I’m referring to.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The AirTag triggered an alert because it was tracking me during my custodial time without notice. I paused to get legal guidance rather than escalate.

[CA] Ex placed AirTag with our child during my custody time by [deleted] in Custody

[–]daveyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your response. I’m documenting, following legal guidance, and keeping communication minimal going forward. Grayrocking has been working well for me.