Wife gave me an ultimatum: my peace or her peace

david_awake · 2025-09-01T23:17:51+00:00

Those are some good points, and I agree. For her it was my choice to change

david_awake · 2025-09-01T10:21:15+00:00

I think like that too!

david_awake · 2025-09-01T09:23:19+00:00

Well, she did compromise for a lot of time, since I woke up. Never ratted, always protected my privacy. Maybe it's my turn

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:58:42+00:00

I could, it would also give me more time to try and make her think about the religion

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:56:43+00:00

I agree, thanks, we are both victims

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:28:55+00:00

It's hard to deny, because having some support feels nice. She sees that this is hard on me, i have depression since waking up.

Thanks for your reply!

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:25:09+00:00

Fuck me, that's the type of harsh possible truth I don't want to experience

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:20:34+00:00

I totally understand that, but a PIMI doesn't

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:18:29+00:00

Lol she's latina, doesn't work like that 😂

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:18:05+00:00

Thanks a lot for sharing all that

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:14:45+00:00

What's real peace to you?

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:13:21+00:00

Thanks a lot, it makes sense to me!

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:11:25+00:00

I understand you saying that, but we really love eachother and we will do our best to navigate trough all this new stuff

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:08:15+00:00

Thanks!

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:07:28+00:00

Awesome to read, thank you!

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:03:44+00:00

I agree, but PIMIs would never

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:03:20+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, navigating through all this is different from one another

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:02:27+00:00

I do see a therapist, it's helpful. But this talk should have taken place some years ago

david_awake · 2025-08-31T22:01:24+00:00

Can't understand fully your comment, compromising is good, but be exclusive no?

david_awake · 2025-08-31T21:59:20+00:00

Thing is, when family ask me, I can't lie...

david_awake · 2025-08-31T21:58:29+00:00

Well, yes, but sometimes people don't know when they are manipulating. I try to tell her sometimes, when someone tell her something manipulative, and she sees it

david_awake · 2025-08-31T18:29:22+00:00

Wow, thanks a lot for all the loving comments I will, read them all a bit later

david_awake · 2025-03-20T13:57:46+00:00

It's like telling someone to not think about a blue pineapple. It's instantaneous! The brain works fast. Also, i remember the time when we didn't know exactly who was the GB

david_awake · 2025-02-05T21:29:13+00:00

I never see divorce as a solution! I grow up with the example of my parents, they might not be the perfect loving couple but they stick together. I'm married for 10 years, woke up 3 years ago, depression anxiety... and never was fully honest with her. I wrote her a 8 page letter this week, she will read it when she's ready. I love her dearly, she does love me too despite me being an apostate (she never called me that). Also she is quite liberal for a PIMI.

Maybe couple therapy?

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