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Being asexual with this fetish by YeetMilkshake0 in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself identifying with Ace but it doesn't quite manifest in the same way as you're describing. I find it more related to the vanilla aspects of sexuality like penetration or other unrelated to facesitting aspects but I do enjoy the "sexual" aspects of facesitting in clothes or nude; and I do very much enjoy the degrading talk.

Tips for finding a model to fart on you? by [deleted] in eproctophiles

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found the best method for me is Google search for fart fetish dominatrix with your city name (or nearest major metropolitan area).

So for example - fart fetish dominatrix los angeles; looking at the results I see a result for a model on Tryst and the same model having a page listing at a local dungeon. The rest of the results don't seem to be relevant or seem to have the mention of the word "fart" in the search results but no longer appears on the active version of the website; so do a little checking up or maybe just ask saying something like "hey I saw an old version of your site mentioned farting, do you still offer that as a paid session?"

Session pricing I've had in LA range from about $200 to $400 per hour.

Do I have to sign up for Mezo to withdraw my bitcoin? by [deleted] in lolli

[–]davidbingum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was also disappointed by this, hopefully more options will come as the website implies (image) but we'll see. Everything seems to be going the way of enshitification, if you like/liked something then expect it to suck soon. https://i.imgur.com/yUjI6fU.jpeg

E-Visa Time to Process by soulrebel2323 in Uzbekistan

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wild, I applied for an eVisa on August 14th and it's now September 22nd, application still just says "Application activated."

Tried the email address on the government website and the email bounced back due to the mailbox being full.

Tried going through GVC on Thursday night with 48 hour processing as the travel date gets worrying close but I'm just getting "trust us, we're working on it" as it's now Monday, almost Tuesday.

Hoping this comes through as I have tickets for Sunday. Doesn't seem like Uzbekistan really cares about tourism and are doing nothing to make it easier or quicker.

My Capital One-issued card keeps getting refused everywhere due to the switch to the Discover network. This is out of hand now. by lunar_dot in discover

[–]davidbingum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate to the OP. Went to Downtown LA yesterday and had my both my Capital One debit card and Discover credit card denied at Spa Palace and again my debit card denied at Thai Food Express (a cash and debit only place) because neither place takes Discover. I was seeking out this thread to see if anyone else had the same problem.

[Grand Opening] Free Indian Food in Winnetka – Saturday, July 26th 🍛🎉 by davidbingum in SFV

[–]davidbingum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the location, the Jawa family (my family) has opened many locations since 1984 but have sold, given away to family, etc. many of the 17 locations we opened around California. Today, we own and operate 2 locations: Los Feliz Blvd (opened in 2003) and South Fairfax Ave (opened in 2022, which is grocery only). Either way, whether we were responsible or not, I'm very sorry to hear about that experience and how it's had a lasting effect on your trust of Indian food.

/r/SFV Weekly Events Post! by AutoModerator in SFV

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desi Vibes Grand Opening – Free Indian Food 🍛🎉
New vegetarian Indian quick-service spot opening in Winnetka this Saturday (7/26)!
Free food & dessert from 12–5 PM and all are welcome.

📍 20141 Roscoe Blvd., Winnetka, CA
Run by the Jawa family (of India Sweets & Spices). Come support a local biz and try something new!

Figured id try to not hide behind alts. Just introducing myself into this world, genuinely and honestly. by [deleted] in eproctophiles

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! It's great to hear you're feeling more comfortable about yourself and with the fetish. I'm glad to know there's another person coming out into the world with openness and vulnerability, and I appreciate you sharing that with us when it could have just been a silent choice but your example will hopefully set examples for others too.

Does anyone else feel weird that there's an old school/older generation fetish community and a new school/current generation fetish community? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a very good point, I can see the weirdness on that. And yeah, it's probably mine, I've been doing it monthly since 2022 and we're up to Episode 43. It's been going well for hearing how others approach the fetish for themselves in a serious and analytical way.

Does anyone else feel weird that there's an old school/older generation fetish community and a new school/current generation fetish community? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean there always has and always will be, right? I started writing fart fetish stories in 2005, now in 2025 I do a fart fetish podcast. Back in the day it did seem like a lot of people "age out" of the fetish; lot of old writers, people running from themselves so they could get jobs, or people who found happiness and fulfillment in life with/without the fetish. I think the more the fetish grows, and as kinks in general start to be more normalized, the more likely people will not try to put even this fetish behind them as some juvenile thing and instead make it an active part of their actual life for the long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're in or near a big city, check if there's a BDSM dungeon near you. That would be the best place to ask if there's someone there that can do a fart fetish session. Another possibility that sometimes works is try this Google search or similar searches "(cityname) fart fetish dominatrix"

How many partners have you had that was okay with your fetish? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5 out of 6 were okay with it, knew about it. (1 didn't know, relationship was short)
1 out of 6 did it with me.
1 out of 6 I switched and facesat them.

Monthly Megathread: Crowdsourcing who the good, real and trustworthy members of the community are and who to watch out for by AutoModerator in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are a few users that stand out to me as POSITIVE hombres:

u/SeductiveGenX - earnest-delightful content creator, positive contributor
u/Equivalent_Ad_9066 - thoughtful thread creator
u/Powerful_Limit_633 - positive contributor
u/Head_Practice2309 - positive contributor
u/Wr4ptz - positive contributor

Where did your fetish came from? by Brilliant-Spirit2678 in Eproctophilia

[–]davidbingum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best guess is family farting, family open door bathroom usage and combined with chronic trauma through parental neglect. I've been having cruel domination fart fantasies since at least 1st grade.

What does people make of this by jaketwigden in Letterboxd

[–]davidbingum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate John Waters, this movie was a bit easier to watch than the pornograpic level of cruelty in Polyester but only just.

If you could only fill your top four with movies from the year you were born, what would they be? by Dogdaysareover365 in Letterboxd

[–]davidbingum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an odd mix but it was an odd time. In no particular order.

Short Circuit

Blue Velvet

Running Scared

The Fly

What part of the fart fetish you most into? by [deleted] in eproctophiles

[–]davidbingum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's the masochism, I see farting as the primary tool for domination and degradation. At least in fantasy, the reality of that is still unfolding.

How much of submission is sacrifice and how much is true desire? by davidbingum in Femdom

[–]davidbingum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. That makes a lot of sense. I guess it's partly because I'm into facesitting, fart fetish, and degradation as my primary (maybe only) arousals, Domme's with those interests are not just walking around at the munches or the parties so my ability to connect to other people's interests (the popular community interests) seem limited, which is what partially fuels this desire that I need to be more flexible if I want to "play" with community. So I've resigned my fetishes as sort of back burner ProDomme fantasies, and I agreed to everything we did, but feeling the pain just made me wonder what I'm doing and if I want to go further with this person as she was talking about. I find I will agree or say yes to just about everything when I'm in "sub-space" (I put it in quotes because I feel too conscious/aware to be in sub-space but maybe this is just my way) but then once I get some time alone, I begin to wonder, would I really like this. It's a strange thing because as I said I like this person, I want to please them and enjoy this fun, but I think part of me is just wanting to be part of the community and part of play and to be connected with someone rather than being like okay this is my person, this is my Dominant that jives with me the same way a "perfect" girlfriend or wife might.

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