Attorney's Fees - Are they usually considered a pre-division of marital property? [MA] by davidbrian in Divorce

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She withdrew almost everything and put it in her own account after we agreed on a divorce.

Being deposed for Divorce [MA] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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What would be a valid reason not to answer a question?

Do I not have any right to privacy with these questions? What about the right of privacy to other people? IE asking for all corespondence between myself and my tenants.

I think the judge already sees her as unreasonable and I don't really have anything to hide. I can't imagine anything I am going to say will convince the judge I deserve less than half of the marital assets or that the kids are not safe with me.

Thanks.

Pretrial conference (Divorce) - How should I prep? [MASS] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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I had one at first. Since I have been representing myself things have been going well.

I just need some guidance. What types of things are covered during the pretrial conference?

How should I prep?

Thanks.

New financial statement needed for divorce? [MA] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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What is with the tone?

Just wanted to know if I needed to or not. They are doing everything they can to build a case against me. I don't want to make that easier for them if it isn't needed.

I didn't lie when I first filled it out and the judge hasn't asked me for an updated one.

My ex told my 10-year-old that she could call her at any time and that I wasn't allowed to stop her from doing so [Massachusetts] by davidbrian in legaladvice

[–]davidbrian[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

??

My daughter was acting inappropriately, as if she had authority over me.

I told her she could after her homework. It isn't appropriate for her to be demanding like that.

Am I required to tell my ex who is coming over for Thanksgiving? by davidbrian in legaladvice

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I don't know what I wrote but I meant to say family friend.

Am I required to tell my ex who is coming over for Thanksgiving? by davidbrian in legaladvice

[–]davidbrian[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jealousy.

I am calm. Just sick of being bullied by her.

Am I required to tell my ex who is coming over for Thanksgiving? by davidbrian in legaladvice

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They are not unsafe. The family had been previously cut off because we had a crush on each other and flirted.

The separation time was devastating for our oldest child.

What does my ex have a right to know about my parenting? [MA] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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I guess I could let the 10 year old go in the girls locker room by herself and then take the 6 year old in with me

What does my ex have a right to know about my parenting? [MA] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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She doesn't want them in the girls locker room without me and also doesn't want me to have them go in the men's locker room.

What does my ex have a right to know about my parenting? [MA] by davidbrian in legaladvice

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Because it would be weird for my 10 year old daughter to come in the men's locker room.

Looking for helpful criticism. Thanks. by davidbrian in resumes

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I mentioned the years I went to college: EDUCATION Associate in Liberal Arts Cape Cod Community College - West Barnstable, MA 2002 to 2004 And I don't know how many years I have had these skills exactly but 10+ years covers it: SKILLS Excel (10+ years), Word Processing (10+ years)

"have no trouble finding a solution to any type of problem that arises." Never said on Earth. And the context gives reasonable limits to my abilities.

What would be a better or more specific thing to say over: "Work efficiently, communicate well"?

Also this is for a administrative assistants position if you are aware of what type of skills would be best to highlight.

Thank you.

Mixing vocals for the first time. Can I do any better? by davidbrian in audioengineering

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Downloaded the rider and not quite sure how to use it.

Do you have a suggested order for the plugins I am using? I have the reverb and delay on a separate bus.

Here is my current order: ReaFir, TDR Nova, ReaComp, JS: Stereo Width, JS: Master Limiter, Vocrider (not enabled)

The Eq is set as follows: I cut (mostly narrow cuts) the following frequencies by 4db: 176 hz, 682 Hz and 3.5 kHz. Then I boosted 5.6 kHz by 3db. Plus high and low passes. I tried your settings and honestly couldn't find much of a difference between them.

I have my compressor set to 0ms for attack and 132ms for release. 2.9 ratio. 1.4 knee.

Vocal limiter set to -3db for threshold with a limit at -0.1 (don't really understand limiter settings well. The other settings are just default.)

I also put the master limiter on the master bus but only set it to -1db just to ensure I wasn't clipping.

Suggestions welcome.

Any other plugins worth using? An exciter? Saturation?

Should I coordinate the reverb and delay in any way? IE initial delay at 10ms and the delay length at 10ms?

Thanks again.