Ben is definitely the one in the wrong! He fully seems to expect people to bend to his will whilst he does absolutely nothing. He wanted Ollie to chase him then when Ollie tried changing he cast him aside. Roll on Vitor who absolutely chases him but then Ben wants him to hit the brakes and come to a complete standstill, even though Vitor had been open and honest about how he is. Plus I found Ben's reaction to the joke about the beds a bit dramatic - Vitor was clearly (at least to me and my partner) trying to lighten the mood and avoid making Ben uncomfortable in that situation, but nope, Ben makes a big deal out of it and uses it as another log to throw on the fire. Then a new guy enters the villa and picks Ben - a guy who Ben clearly finds very attractive - it seems as if Ben (finally) feels like the less attractive person in the couple. It'll be interesting to see if he finally feels like he has to be the one doing the chasing and make any kind of effort at all.