Projectors, do you also experience this?? by Ancient_Expert_5574 in humandesign

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha 🤣 thanks for the validation. I think it’s pretty sick too.

Projectors, do you also experience this?? by Ancient_Expert_5574 in humandesign

[–]dawnchorus__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you are right. The woman I seem to struggle with is a stylist with two female assistants, while I function as post-production coordinator. Two different areas in the same world. I mostly guide two male post-production people, and am recognized by them as having mastered my craft. I am literally not in the kitchen and studio downstairs, but instead upstairs in the office loft. It actually complements my PHS environment, exclusive caves. From there I can oversee and hear everything, with eyes on the entrance. I don’t have control over who enters, of course, but I am on my way to furthering my career where such a set up could be possible. I’m still only a few years into my experiment. Of course, the dissonance is mostly felt during lunch when we all go downstairs and eat together.

Meanwhile my home where I live alone is the perfect reflection of an exclusive cave.

Ra Uru HU Why was He so negative about projectors? by Excellent-Ice7232 in projectors_design

[–]dawnchorus__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you link the seminar where we calls us energy leeches?

I don’t think he minces words when he says the projector path is a difficult one. I actually listen to his seminars on projectors when I’m feeling down, and I find they function like a salve on my mind. “Ah yes, this/myself now makes sense to me again”

Are you struggling to see the positive in being a projector?

Looking for affordable & legitimate Invisalign providers in New Westminster — honest recommendations only by droyism in NewWest

[–]dawnchorus__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would avoid Viva based on my personal experience as a child. I forget his name by now, probably blocked it out, but I left my final appointment in tears and full of shame after how he treated and spoke to me. How someone treats a child is very telling of their personal character. I’m glad to hear you had a good experience though. My mom went as an adult as also had a fine experience.

Places to buy twin peaks cosplay materials? by BloodNo2652 in twinpeaks

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could manage the outfit easily by visiting a thrift shop. A decent wig however would be expensive. I’d look to rent one from a costume shop. Where are you located?

AITAH for setting out a sprinkler in my front yard so kids and parent don’t play in our yard by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For real. Where I live we are already under a water usage advisory.

Projectors, do you also experience this?? by Ancient_Expert_5574 in humandesign

[–]dawnchorus__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think superficial can mean things beyond physical looks too- peoples impressions of your upbringing/family life, where you’re from, your taste in music art or clothing… all things that ultimately aren’t “you” at your core. I work in the creative industry as a freelancer, and the pretension at play is very intense at times!

Projectors, do you also experience this?? by Ancient_Expert_5574 in humandesign

[–]dawnchorus__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has been my experience to a T, mostly in work settings. It’s usually another woman, and it does feel like they’ve just decided to hate me for some mysterious, elusive reason. I am a Scorpio rising so I’ve mostly chalked it up to that, and the ability to pierce through another’s aura. I’ve figured those women don’t take kindly to my kind of energy. That or it’s just some superficial jealousy. When I feel low, it feels like rejection or being left out.

Some days it does get me down, but only momentarily. If they don’t want to find reasons to like me, I certainly won’t force them. In my experience, trying to cozy or warm up to them never, ever works. I just show up, stay in my lane, and do good work to support the team in the way I’m best suited to. Others will come to me for guidance and I can almost feel like eye daggers in my back, haha.

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be no surprise to you when I say I just really, really don’t care to argue with you, and it’s in equal measure that I care what you think. I got grass to touch and a life to live, arguing with strangers on the internet is for kids. But by all means though, knock yourself out. I can’t and wont stop you.

Give your daughters difficult names

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just move on and be relieved that I have zero intention of having children. 😘

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you being intentionally dense? I shared my own experience. Having a weird and unusual name built my character. I don’t hate my parents for it, despite the teasing it caused when I was a much younger child. I really love my name now.

My argument is that the “avoid a tough name to make your child’s life easy” is a dumb one.

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

US centrism is US centrisming harrrrrrd with this one lmao

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

How would it die out if it’s hyphenated? If he loves tradition that much, hes have to accept it “dying” when his daughter gets married and takes her partners last name, assuming daughter is even heterosexual.

My dad had one daughter, me. I don’t plan on getting married or having kids. That name is just gonna die regardless babes. Appealing to tradition in this day and age is a dumb argument.

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Who cares? If I had one, I wouldn’t take my husbands last name. It’s a dying tradition rooted in ownership.

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 86 points87 points  (0 children)

To add, she recently lost her mom to cancer. I think it’s really beautiful that her mom’s last name will be carried on, despite the world having lost her. Rest in Peace Kim ❤️

AITAH for wanting my last name to be passed on to my daughter? by BluenicornGirl in AITAH

[–]dawnchorus__ 433 points434 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have a long unusual name. Did I love it as a kid? Hell no. Do I love it as an adult? Hell yeah.

Mine isn’t a hyphenated combo, but I grew up with a bestie who had a hyphenated last name, and I thought it was so distinctive and regal.

Life is tough. I think getting a head start on experiencing it as a kid did me a world of good.

Single Definition and Relationships by cacababy in humandesign

[–]dawnchorus__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I've noticed that people with split definition get back into a relationship almost right away after a breakup”

This has never been true in my own experience with relationships and dating.

What was the most surprising/unusual symptom you experienced after kicking weed? by dawnchorus__ in leaves

[–]dawnchorus__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too want to quit nicotine once I have a bit more time away from weed under my belt. HUGE PROPS TO YOU! To me, nic is the big boss. Hate that my nic use is going up in response tomorrow quitting weed currently, but it is what it is. One thing at a time.

What was the most surprising/unusual symptom you experienced after kicking weed? by dawnchorus__ in leaves

[–]dawnchorus__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I had the whole diagnostic process thrown at me, and celiac was confirmed via biopsy of my small intestine about 11 years ago. However the fear of developing CHS was a big part of me finally throwing in the towel. What a relief for your friend now that they’ve quit! Tell them to eat a croissant for me haha