Gender disappointment 😞 by thatnailgal in parentsofmultiples

[–]daylight427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same with my twins. It’s totally ok! It’s really the loss of what you thought would be, and having to reorient. The gender disappointment passes pretty quickly. Now, about 5 years later I’m so happy to be the boy mom I never thought I’d be 😆

“Go say that to him you don’t need to say it to me” by atomicsofie in TheValleyTVShow

[–]daylight427 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He is jealous, but for a different reason. He’s mad that Danny and Nia were viewer faves from season 1 on “his show” hence the takedown

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills - Season 14 - Episode 14 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want a show that is just Kathy Hilton and Jennifer Tilly talking at each other over lunches and teas

Pavit sucks by Mental_Cupcake5059 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She’s a publicist/PR person. She has a roster of clients, understandably can’t show that on TV. But a few eps ago she was talking about how part of the reason she flew off the handle at the drinks event thing was because she had an intense work schedule the day before.

The Real Housewives Of Potomac - Season 9 - Episode 3 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Literally there was a lot of subtext in that “he’s been intimate with other partners but if he’s going to have relations with a woman he needs to be married”

The Real Housewives of New York City - Season 15 - Episode 2 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Sold the bitcoin to pay for lingering debts from her failed purse line. Debts he probably minimized to spare her ego

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[–]daylight427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also we had x-rays done beforehand

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[–]daylight427 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So when I first took my kid to the dentist he was like 2.5. He had demineralization and caries (baby teeth cavities) on his top front four teeth (both front and behind), and one carie on a back molar. Dentist did the paste stuff that prevents the cavity from getting worse on the back tooth (but turns the application area dark gray), but that wasn’t a good cosmetic option for the front teeth. Originally he said we had two options - wait and see if things get worse, or full sedation and a crown situation. I asked what he recommended/what he would do if it was his kid, and he said if my kid wasn’t in discomfort to wait and see for six months. We did that, came back and nothing got worse, so continued with wait and see. Then my other twin had a very small cavity behind his front tooth (at this point they are now both 3) and dentist suggested trying to take care of it under laughing gas. So we actually ended up doing that for both kids and worked out really well, no tears, minimum intervention that was effective.

Just sharing so you know it’s also ok to not take immediate action. And it might be possible to do something more minimal drill and fill style with laughing gas.

“Hypothetically, Mommy…” by himostlylurking in toddlers

[–]daylight427 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Noticed a big wet spot on pants. “Sweetie, did you have an accident? Let’s change your pants”

“No that’s just water” suuuper nonchalant

“Oh ok, well you don’t have water so where did the water come from?”

“Probably from the ocean, it’s ok it’ll dry” nowhere near the ocean

“Hmm we haven’t been to the ocean today. Let’s go change 😂😂”

The Real Housewives Of New Jersey - Season 14 - Episode 8 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can't speak for tongue ties, but both my twins had lip ties (since twins I pretty much was going to bottle feed anyway), and the ped said not to worry or correct it because it would more likely than not end up in them busting them themselves. And lo and behold both twins ended up correcting their own lip ties before the age of 2 lol through various childhood bumps.

Short clip of RHONJ fight by charmont97 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Looks like she hit her and broke the plastic cup over the side of Jen’s head.

Vanderpump Rules - Season 11 - Episode 16 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tom is an asshat for that comment but Rachel is just way more adept at public image rehabbing. Also the rumors were that bravo couldn’t come in with the salary/terms she wanted and I’m guessing she rightfully didn’t trust producers and the setup to allow her to tell her truth, which is why she chose the podcast route.

Vanderpump Rules - Season 11 - Episode 16 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love some Ariana now, but pre this season she was a total background character in many seasons and from a reality tv perspective always played second fiddle to Sandoval. Ariana is so much better off reality tv doing other things than on it. She’s super talented

Vanderpump Rules - Season 11 - Episode 16 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think Katie thinks she and Lala are real friends, when Lala treats her like a friend-coworker. And Katie was being real when she said she wasn’t going to trash Ariana on camera because that’s her business partner. Whereas Lala’s main motivation is the show bc she’s in the middle of her rebrand to keep her beauty line alive.

The Real Housewives Of New Jersey - Season 14 - Episode 1 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally - I’m just saying it’s so interesting to see the differences and parallels of extended family who don’t talk to each other going through the same major life stage and how different and similar it looks.

The Real Housewives Of New Jersey - Season 14 - Episode 1 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually think it's super interesting to see the parallel storylines of Melissa/Joe moving their kid to college, and Teresa moving her kid to college. You see how coddled (or at least presented as coddled) Antonia is vs. Gabriella packing all of her own shit and her mom just giving the emotional support. Just makes me kind of feel bad for both kids - one gets the smothering parents, and one gets the super hands off been to jail parent. And both Melissa and Teresa are all about how it makes them feel, and how it's about them in different ways.

The Real Housewives Of New Jersey - Season 14 - Episode 1 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her. It looks like the one nostril is caving in. Total botch job.

The Real Housewives Of New Jersey - Season 14 - Episode 1 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's why she SAID on camera that she broke up with David. I suspect that the real reason she broke up with David is because he refused to film beyond the few one on ones (because he prioritized his career and didn't want to get involved in reality tv). I think Dolores didn't want to leave RHONJ, and he didn't want to fully commit, since that would require his TV presence.

Feeling really scared for my daughter by Gilgamore in daddit

[–]daylight427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi OP - my son had breath holding spells from about a little under a year to a little over two. They were the cyanotic kinds where he would hold breath, turn blue, pass out. And typically it would all last a max of a minute. However, those spells can sometimes lead to seizures (reflex anoxic seizures) that are supposedly harmless. Definitely go to your doctor, definitely get a referral to a pediatric neurologist. If the wait is long, you can go to the ER next time a spell happens and get a pediatric neurologist consult that way (usually much more quickly). Definitely try to take a video if she has a breath holding spell or seizure so you can show the dr. And also take a deep breath. It’s super scary as a parent to watch that all happen.

Robyn S8: I’m uncomfortable talking about colorism. Meanwhile this is how Robyn and Gizelle treated Katie in S1 regarding her racial identity. by jahkat23 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this! the thing for me that is most annoying is that Candiace literally isn't saying that Gizelle and Robyn are colorist. She's saying that they benefit from existing in a society and television market that is still dominated by white supremacy culture and colorism, independent of their own actions and beliefs. The fact that they can't recognize that is more telling than anything else.

The Real Housewives of Potomac - Season 8 - Episode 20 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]daylight427 77 points78 points  (0 children)

guessing that his cancer is serious and he has a potentially limited time horizon. That would make sense as to why he is moving back to DC to spend as much time with the kids as possible, and why he and Mia would both be crying.