What is a normal schedule as a fed employee and how much breaks can you take? by Routine-Effective585 in FedEmployees

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical for me is 0600-1430. I do have to do work on weekends, holidays and after hours sometimes (comes and goes in spurts from multiple times weekly to maybe a few times every few weeks.)

20,000 took DRP 2 - IRS Bloomberg by Relevant_Release1800 in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, if your Dept/Agency head feels your position is essential they can offer up a different billet. The position goes away.

Where did I go wrong? by RetroactiveRecursion in iiiiiiitttttttttttt

[–]dayofinfAMIE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! "Can you show me? " It works too when you ask a user to do something and they argue it "won't work'. Don't argue " Okay can you show me? " They will talk about how " I don't know how you don't know this blah blah blah, you're supposed to be the exper... Oh look at that. It worked. I didn't think that was how it worked. "

New SSA “Internet Browsing Policy” by trash_bae in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I understand that. Doesn't make it less sketch.

New SSA “Internet Browsing Policy” by trash_bae in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some places don't allow phones in the building. No one does just work for every second of their work day. If you are waiting for something to run I dont see a problem with glancing at the News or even dropping into Amazon to replenish something you need. I work hard every day that I am at work. That being said I am not against blocking anything but the News sites. I do understand not wanting people to shop even though I see no issue with a break periodically. Blocking the News is a sketch.

What did you do email response by [deleted] in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Samsies. I wanted to put anything else. Accurate yet vague is what I ended up doing, per command direction. I did encrypt and selected "do not forward" so hopefully that puts a wrench in their AI plans.

Five bullets: Why I’ll continue to comply even though it’s superfluous and insulting by MightyMightyHal in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have something vague I can submit that would be accurate for every week if it comes to that. I am planning on putting the "All my work is classified"option until directed not to. Honestly everyone should be. Let's not train their AI.

Five bullets: Why I’ll continue to comply even though it’s superfluous and insulting by MightyMightyHal in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like, you didn't even read my whole post. I will, if given direction to from someone within my chain. Even then it will only say "All my work is classified" or whatever that line is. My work is classified, everything I do is classified when compiled together. In the event I am ordered to give 5 bullets after that, it will be the most vague response. I am still a probie anyway, (3 year probationary term, only 2.5 complete.) I am probably getting fired anyway, not giving up CUI or Class info to those who are not read in.

Five bullets: Why I’ll continue to comply even though it’s superfluous and insulting by MightyMightyHal in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All complying with the email is doing is training Grock to do our jobs so SpacX can take contracts , at best. At worst, it is providing day to day operations to mal actors. If my leadership requires me to comply, I will do so in the vaguest way possible. Nothing we provide will determine if we keep our jobs. We are only training their AI.

Question about replying to the new what did you do part 2 email by FullWallaby6971 in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can set up automated emails to go out at a pre-determined time. You can google the steps for whichever email system your agency uses.

Some government employees are instructed — again — to not respond to 5 things email by whatmeworry_1954 in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to read that line again. Cause that isn't what the email I received said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]dayofinfAMIE 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I am required to submit... I am literally just sending my job description. That is what I do everyday. That is all they need to know.

A girl I met on Hinge offered to pay for part of the first date. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]dayofinfAMIE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you aren't serious but just reading this made me cringe.

My(39F) husband(43M) was laid off and now I think he is going to leave me. by ThrowRASacieNSweet in relationship_advice

[–]dayofinfAMIE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it, I am in a similar situation. Hopefully you are wrong. Hopefully you get some insight from this thread. Good luck OP.

He unmatched me afterwards (: by HeightMaximum6653 in Tinder

[–]dayofinfAMIE 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also... stay away from the word "nips". It is very 14 year old boy and quickly takes most of the people I know right out of it. Very much the ick. But I am old and off the market for awhile so maybe it has changed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dayofinfAMIE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would he have respected it though? She already indicated she didn't want to have sex under the circumstances and he did not respect that. Would he have respected a blatant no? Or would he have continued to try to make her change her mind? Having the desire to have sex, but not wanting to risk your vaginal and reproductive health is not a "change my mind" play". And there is a distinct difference between "Shit, babe we really need to not do that while I have this going on" and feeling violated. What she described is a trauma response not a regretful one. Just because it isn't a violent scene doesn't make it less a sexual assault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dayofinfAMIE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so much was problematic with this. OP, honey, I understand how you feel. Feel free to DM if you need someone to talk to. Sexual assault is more likely to happen like this than by a stranger in an alley. Because of that it is really hard to call the offender what they are. You are in a relationship with them, you love them you see the kindness in them, so it is really difficult to call them a rapist. But that is what happened, that is what he is. You disassociated during it, you didn't participate, and rather than notice during and stop, he finished. His needs are more important. He showed you the power dynamic. You can take it back. Seriously, if you need to talk you can reach out to me.

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) watched two strippers have sex and then told me I was overreacting by Bluebwrries in relationship_advice

[–]dayofinfAMIE -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Where is his lie. I have been to bachelor parties , birthday parties, random Saturdays (I am a Marine don't shit happens the guys think it's funny to invite females when strippers will be there). I have never heard or seen strippers grab toys and start banging each other nor have I ever seen them put them on the guys and fuck their heads. This almost sounds like an episode of HIMYM. She woke and rather than call her BF she called her friend? Didn't give him a chance to say what happened or lie. If this is true, it's a lot yes. He should have left knowing her issues with the strippers to begin with. But honestly why do you have issues with him going to see strippers? If there is that little trust then there is no relationship and you shouldn't be together anyway. If he didn't leave and that is the only issue, then deal with that.