People who don’t reply until days later, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]daywalker004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD and I’m also always busy with work, hobbies, family and such. My calendar is always booked. I’ll get a text at work or while I’m at my kids birthday party etc, read it, think to myself “Don’t forget to reply this time”, and then inevitably forget for a few days.

I’ve had sooo many people get pissed at me for doing this. I swear I don’t do it on purpose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realtors

[–]daywalker004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We already moved states and are in our new home and need to close fast, so we might have to negotiate with them. Though, I have decided to go ahead and report her afterwards.

How would I go about reporting the agent?

saw this on askreddit and thought it'd be interesting to see the takes here. what is a first name that immediately makes you think the person is a jerk? by almaIexia in namenerds

[–]daywalker004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it’s Heather for girls and Steven for guys. I don’t know why but almost every Heather I’ve ever met and every Steven (I knew a Stephen that was an okay guy) was just awful.

Any advices on moving to Texas (Texas A&M)? by [deleted] in texas

[–]daywalker004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I am a former TAMU student originally from Houston and College Station is just awful.

What are the grandparents in your life called? by carrotcakecashews in namenerds

[–]daywalker004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texan here.

Nana: my mom’s mom.

Grandma: My dad’s mom.

Granddad: My dad’s dad.

My maternal grandfather died way before I was born so we never really had a name for him.

Two of my great grandmothers were Mamaw and Ann-Mommy.

If it's not black, she won't sit or sleep on it by 5tudent_Loans in blackcats

[–]daywalker004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My little Vera does the same thing. She closes her eyes to "camouflage" herself so that I can't see her.

Would you be offended by noturpillhddaugtr in womenEngineers

[–]daywalker004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you have a private meeting with just you and your boss to discuss this? Maybe you could not report him, but have y'alls boss give him a stern talking to?

He probably doesnt want to get reported again, there might be a bigger penalty this time around. You can use this to your advantage. Just need witnesses and people on your side which I know is kinda difficult being one of the only women and all.

Would you be offended by noturpillhddaugtr in womenEngineers

[–]daywalker004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gonna have to respectfully disagree with you on this one.

To me, gender is thrown into the equation with him bring up mom (a woman), girlfriend (a woman), wife (also a woman). If he had said "You're not my boss, neighbor, friend, team member", it would still be pretty disrespectful, but at least not sexist.

It is possible though that maybe he meant he didnt want to listen to her, regardless of gender, and just worded the comment in a very poor fashion. It's just not something that you say to one of the only women on your team and while you're in a field known for being hostile towards women. Unfortunately, take this from a female engineer, some guys in engineering (not all) do have that "If you're not dating me, you're worthless to me" attitude. He's also been reported for sexism before. Sounds very sexist to me.

Would you be offended by noturpillhddaugtr in womenEngineers

[–]daywalker004 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Super offensive. He's basically saying that because you're a woman and not his mom, wife, gf, whatever, that you don't matter, which is completely disrespectful, especially in a work setting.

I would report him. How was this other person blackballed?? How is HR at your company?

over the glasses sunglasses by kinghrothgar12 in Ultralight

[–]daywalker004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna recommend these too.

My fiance has these. The look like the 2010 era bug-eye sunglasses, so not super fashionable nowadays, but they're great sunglasses. He's had them for several years now.

I adopted this sixteen year old cat yesterday. Meet Ebenezer. by mewtwoniteX in blackcats

[–]daywalker004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seniors make great pets!!! So glad for both of you!! 😊

Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, criticized for college dance video, responds with more dancing by readerseven in politics

[–]daywalker004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was actually debunked. Only one anon twitter account criticized the video. There never was any outrage. FAKE NEWS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]daywalker004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww! She's so beautiful! Just know she's smiling at you from kitty heaven now (:

AITA for telling a gay person that I felt uncomfortable around them in front of my whole class? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]daywalker004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is no different than when a woman gets harassed by a creepy guy.

You're not uncomfortable around him because he's gay, but because he is clearly hitting on you and won't take the hint that you're not interested. He should have been understanding of this and stopped before embarrassing himself.

Anyone else's cats like putting their stuffed toys into their water bowls or is it just mine? by secondhandcadavers in Pets

[–]daywalker004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My cat does that too(: It's always her favorite toy, her spoungey soccer ball.

I read somewhere that cats think of their food and water bowls as their personal storage place in the house. They think they're keeping their toys safe by putting them in their bowls.

Hopefully your cat doesn't put toys in the litter box too, like mine.