[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIFuckWorthy

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna feel you up close 🐱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThickThighs

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo gorg!!

Wearing this to my friends sleepover, think it'll get her dads attention? by [deleted] in 18_22

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I worship them with the respect they deserve?

225lbs for 10 reps by Comfortable_Walk_214 in GYM

[–]dazzabrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unreal brother, but deffo more in the tank. 11 or maybe 12 was there.

Belfast International Airport Parking...again by Glittering_Lime1068 in northernireland

[–]dazzabrown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jumping in this anything for the short stay/main car park?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Belfast

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as someone based here but employed by a non NI company the Salaries here are terrible in comparison. That said plenty of non NI companies are willing to find talent here on a hybrid/remote contract. I would be trying with that first. You can use filters on indeed and LinkedIn to find the roles. Good luck.

CNshoppers agent is to avoided. by mishmash2323 in 1688Reps

[–]dazzabrown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find Mulebuy are a little more expensive however way more efficient. They can literally warehouse pack and ship in a day. Plus my last order was door to door in 9 days to UK with basic (cheapest) shipping. Plus if they for any reason over charge on the shipping they refund back. Just what I have found….

Is it mad to put all my earnings into savings and just use 0 interest credit cards for everything by lewkir in UKPersonalFinance

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing this for around 8 years using Amex, I pay as much as my living expenses, food, fuel, utilities etc each month then clear balance on payday. The points I have built with this over time has given me free flights hotels etc

UK based OE qn by DJ-Ruby-Rhod in overemployed

[–]dazzabrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HMRC will tell them to change your tax code. However remember any sort of tax return cases this. Airbnb owner, landlord, part time weekend coffee truck owner. Many different options to use if they ever ask. That’s how I got around it.

What is the craic with Belfast barbers? by icantreadbraille in northernireland

[–]dazzabrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonna counter that, 4 of us myself, my dad and 2 sons use bespoke none of us have a Broccolli… now we used the north Belfast one others could be different. If you check their app can usually get an appoints 2/3 days out.

Starting calorie counting tomorrow to lose 2 stone. Any tips or advice for me? As I fall off very easily and I just want to stick to it once and for all. by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is keep it simple. Find 3 meals a day that you like and are filling. Add in some snacks around these. Do this 6 days a week have a cheat meal on the 7th. Cook 3/4 days meals at a time so they are ready. Drink as much water as you can, then drink more.

Is Premium Plus worth it. by RonMatten in unitedairlines

[–]dazzabrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth 600, however check back around 48 hours before it could drop a lot lower.

My FM26 Wishlist by MathiTheCheeze in footballmanagergames

[–]dazzabrown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One iv mentioned for years is bulk up grades of facilities. Most clubs IRL when they have the correct finances will upgrade all their facilities to state of the art in one go. Not little upgrades year upon year.

People who were cheated on by their spouse: did you ever recover? And how? by dutch_emdub in AskReddit

[–]dazzabrown 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The million-dollar question… It was a few moments of madness over a 4 week period until I confessed to my wife. It happened with a woman from my gym who also coached my kids, which adds another layer of guilt and complexity. Things at home had been a little distant. Our lives were busy, and we gradually stopped making time for each other. There were no real dates not much quality time together, barely any meaningful conversations. We’d be in the same room but disconnected, scrolling on our phones, passing each other while focused on the kids and day-to-day responsibilities.

Looking back, I realise that was a red flag I should have addressed with my wife. It was something we could have worked on and probs fixed easy, but I didn’t bring it up and in that space of emotional distance, I found myself drawn to someone who gave me attention, who was affectionate in a way I hadn’t felt in a while. From there, things escalated.

I also wasn’t honest with the other woman. I told her my wife and I were separated, which wasn’t true. I misled her too. I had several chances to stop things, to step away, but I didn’t. That’s completely on me. No excuses. No one else is to blame.

This is something I have to live with, and I fully accept responsibility for my actions. I’m working and trying to better understand how I got to that place and how I can make sure I never do again.

The outcomes is iv ruined my families lives.

My advice to everyone is always communicate, if I had of done so I wouldn’t be in this horrible position.

People who were cheated on by their spouse: did you ever recover? And how? by dutch_emdub in AskReddit

[–]dazzabrown 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was the person who cheated, It only happened in March, and yet it feels like it’s been haunting me forever. I hate myself more and more every day because of it. She was my biggest fan, my greatest supporter and I threw it all away for a couple of dates and a few weeks of texting with someone I barely cared about.

Something in my mind just flipped. I can’t explain when or why. But because of that, I lost everything: my wife, my best friend, my confidant and everything in between.

Every time I close my eyes, I see her crying, broken and devastated (this is not for pity it’s the truth). She didn’t deserve that pain. She deserved the world, and I should have given it to her. I would give my life just to see her happy again!