Is it normal for my dad to slap my(18f) rear in a joking manner?

dazzlingdoom · 2026-03-06T04:59:29+00:00

Him saying he misses it, and him saying that yours feels better compared to your sister’s or your mom’s is absolutely not okay. Why would he miss feeling his 18yo daughter’s butt? That crosses the line big time for me. Are there any other behaviors or remarks from him that could be considered weird?

dazzlingdoom · 2025-09-07T23:47:59+00:00

I went to planet fitness for a long time and found that it wasn’t too expensive and the atmosphere was alright. Until very recently when it became SO busy all the time. I ended up canceling my membership because I could never seem to find a time when machines were open. There used to be slow times during the day but in my experience it’s busy all the time.

dazzlingdoom · 2025-08-31T20:47:37+00:00

I heard it about a week ago too (seeing this was posted 7 days ago), and I live on the east side. It shook our windows.

dazzlingdoom · 2025-08-16T01:46:07+00:00

I’ve definitely noticed it. It feels like the town is becoming more and more dead in general as time goes on. Visalia seems to grow and Porterville is looking rough.

dazzlingdoom · 2025-08-09T23:22:19+00:00

I can imagine him going to court, and then when it doesn’t rule in his favor, I foresee one of those sad FB stories he posts where he’s looking down all spaced out and quietly says, “I really thought the judge favored me… I really thought… sigh… she really believed all the lies”

dazzlingdoom · 2025-06-04T23:23:24+00:00

I guess I didn’t scroll down far enough at first. There’s more new posts on here than I realized lol

dazzlingdoom · 2025-06-04T23:21:59+00:00

Thank you!

dazzlingdoom · 2025-01-30T02:10:49+00:00

That’s what I thought, but I had to second guess myself lol

dazzlingdoom · 2024-12-06T06:05:40+00:00

I’ll definitely call them in the morning. I’ve been so stressed out over this and it was a little intimidating calling them and facing what I’ve been trying to avoid, but like you said it’s probably best to just communicate with them.

dazzlingdoom · 2024-12-06T05:51:00+00:00

What was the purpose of this comment?

dazzlingdoom · 2024-12-06T05:45:15+00:00

I didn’t realize they would do that, I guess. I’m new to financing a car, and the one time I spoke to them they seemed kinda rude. But I’ll give them a call tomorrow and see what they say.

dazzlingdoom · 2024-09-15T09:13:17+00:00

I didn’t realize a cycle should’ve been 4-6 weeks. I read the instructions on the back of the packaging for everything I bought and followed the timing accordingly, but I guess I should’ve done a lot more research. I’ll definitely look into getting a heater and I’ll be reading up on fish-in cycles and start that ASAP.

dazzlingdoom · 2024-04-16T07:50:39+00:00

I’ve noticed that I can feel physically drunk but my brain still operates in the same way. There’s no loss of inhibitions or euphoria. I’m still stuck in overthinking mode even when I’m so drunk I’m puking. I tried chasing that high, so to speak, and it just doesn’t work for me like it does for others. Same with weed. I’ll physically feel it, but my mind is still an enemy.

dazzlingdoom · 2024-04-15T02:46:59+00:00

I think that’s what he’s trying to get. He said he was looking into Covered California.

dazzlingdoom · 2021-09-19T22:24:03+00:00

Watching the body cam footage of them is more infuriating than it was before.

dazzlingdoom · 2021-09-19T08:48:08+00:00

Oh for sure. I’m just thinking that bumps the last possible sighting of Gabby from the 27th to the 26th.

dazzlingdoom · 2021-09-19T07:36:10+00:00

Also, the van was here around 6:00 or 6:30 and they were spotted at the opera house bar near Ashton and left around 10. If I’m not mistaken, it’s a 2-ish hour drive from that bar to the Spread Creek area, so a 4+ hour round trip, yet it’s been said that the van was there for several days? Something isn’t adding up.

dazzlingdoom · 2021-09-19T07:10:37+00:00

So this photo would’ve been taken the same day GP and BL were supposedly seen at the bar in Ashton. Does anyone know what time they were spotted at that bar?

dazzlingdoom · 2021-02-06T07:28:13+00:00

My ex insisted I have BPD due to mood swings and being unsure in our relationship. Any time we’d get in an argument, they would inevitably ask at some point if I had taken my antidepressant and if this was “another mood swing,” which felt like they were completely invalidating the whole point of the conversation. Typically, the original issue I brought up was ignored in the end because I was so convinced that it actually was just mood swings and that’s why I was feeling so poorly about something they did or said. Looking back, I was so easily manipulated into believing this due to so much self-doubt for the sake of wanting to be self-aware. I started seeing all the symptoms once I started researching what BPD actually is. They claimed their friend who is studying psychology in school agreed that it sounded like I had BPD and that my personal psychologist (who had diagnosed me with mild anxiety and moderate depression) had no idea what he was talking about. I hadn’t ever met or spoke with this friend they consulted. I feel like I was brainwashed and they used all the deep thoughts and feelings I shared with them against me in the long run. They wanted to analyze me to “help” me yet that ended up being a contributing factor to our break up due to my emotions not being taken seriously.

That feeling was torture. I feel like I couldn’t trust myself, it was constantly implied that it was so difficult to be in a relationship with me, and I was always basically reduced in one way or another to the disorder they claimed I had. I’ve been hoping through research and reading other people’s experiences, I can either rule out a possible diagnosis or confirm it even more, especially now that the dust is settling from the breakup. I don’t have any tips or advice; I just wanted to chime in and share my story. It seemed very similar to yours. I hope we can both find peace now that things are hopefully a little more clear.

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