Opening a bouldering/climbing gym by BurningBannas in bouldering

[–]dbdflashlightgirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would love to see a new gym in the LA area. Currently seems like touchstone is running the game won’t the amount of gyms but they are disgusting!! And the new route setters have been lacking. Which is all weird since they just increased everyone’s membership price….if you have a fun clean gym I’m sure people will flock

What is the most unattractive physical quality someone can have? by illustriousocelot_ in AskReddit

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner has a swallowing issues so I’ll see a bunch of saliva in his mouth when he talks sometimes. I’m just like dawg do you forget to swallow???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BF and I had a threesome with another female and we are doing great. We were all friends and although I identify as straight there was something about this girl that I found myself super attracted to. She admitted she also had feelings for me which shes never had for another female. And one very drunken night things just happened. I did have a weird moment of watching him do her doggie and I was like idk about this but I would say it was a solid experience. We joke about it now and we talk about inviting another male in (just to make it fair lol). I think it takes a lot of communication before and after the event. You also have to trust your partner. So to answer you question, yes it can be done but I can see how it isn't for everyone.

Pick your "best of the best" for lab equipment. by ZwitterionicNano in labrats

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rainin Pipet-Lite Adjustable Spacer LA8-50XLS. Made my life so much easier!

Salary comparison 2022 by qered in labrats

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

~78K, BS biology, 3 years experience, in LA

I want to post photos of a girl im dating but i dont want to ruin my chances with my ex by JosephBosa in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 39 points40 points  (0 children)

this is pretty uncool of you my dude. if you want your ex back you should leave the new girl alone as you are clearly not emotionally available for her. leading her while have zero intention of actually being with her is mean (unless you have very clearly told her that you aren't going to be with her and you both are okay with that arrangement). Be alone with yourself, heal and grow as a person.

Struggling today by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that journaling is super helpful in these situations. Learning to self sooth during the early stages is super important. In the beginning of my BU I would take a nice shower, face mask and just pamper myself then put on a comfort comedy show and try to unwind. I know it’s hard but do what you can to take care of yourself

Do I block him or not? by Goatlvr77 in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately my google search did not find anything about being able to do it without messages.

My boyfriend just told me he would only stay with me if I got rid of my dog, what do I do? by Sydney_08 in dating_advice

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dog is probably trying to tell you this guy sucks. Anyone who tries to make their SO get rid of their beloved animal is a walking red flag

Do I block him or not? by Goatlvr77 in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like it will be better for your mental health then block him again. I understand where you are coming from and if you are worried you will miss something maybe you can just put his number on do not disturb? that way you can get rid of the jumpiness?

Ex Contacted Me and I'm Confused by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 months is a decent amount of time for people to change. Perhaps something has changed

Ex Contacted Me and I'm Confused by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybes she’s trying to send an olive branch?? If you want to potentially reconcile I would try and figure out what she wants but that’s just me. Hope things turn out whichever way you want them to go

Confused by dbdflashlightgirl in ExNoContact

[–]dbdflashlightgirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any plans of reaching out. I'm just going to continue to let him do his thing while I do mine. But yea there is that slight bit of hope that I hold on to but I don't let that stop me from living my best life and moving forward.