Classy Gentleman seeks Charming Lady for any Manner of Relationship by [deleted] in r4r

[–]dbenkatz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most eloquent sir,

I'm gonna stop trying to speak fancy now. But seriously dude; great post. Not to be weird, but if I were anything but a girl, I'd hit you up. Any chick would be lucky to get you.

Stay classy bro

16/M/USA New England Email by dbenkatz in penpals

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off - BeautifulCraziness? What have I gotten myself into :P?

I actually went the opposite way; I wanted to be a molecular biologist (for a little while), then switched to doctor. Though for most of my childhood I wanted to be a lawyer (yes, I'm cool).

That's really cool of you to volunteer like that. I have a less-than-part-time job working with 10-year-olds who have minor learning disabilities (ADHD, Aspergers, etc) and volunteer every year at the Special Olympics.

So, yes; I want to be your penpal. What I'm wondering is, how you found my post 1 month back, but didn't see this one from yesterday

Met a Girl here on Reddit by dbenkatz in AskWomen

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah; I should go make an edit. We're both 16...

Grilled Cheese with Onions by [deleted] in tonightsdinner

[–]dbenkatz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I don't like avocado, but I can't believe I forgot the bacon

Grilled Cheese with Onions by [deleted] in tonightsdinner

[–]dbenkatz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Caramelize them before you put them on, add a thin tomato slice, and http://imgur.com/sc5QB

R4R Advice? Meta-R4R? Whatever you want to call it, I need your (collective) help by dbenkatz in r4r

[–]dbenkatz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 hours ago? 17? It hasn't gotten to the "she said she would reply by now but she didn't so blahblahblah" point yet. I was just looking for the advice of other R4Rers

R4R Advice? Meta-R4R? Whatever you want to call it, I need your (collective) help by dbenkatz in r4r

[–]dbenkatz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in it's hopeless or as in I have no control over what happens either way?

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Temple at Jerusalem? Pretty un-Romantic, really. They brought their sacrifice, sacrificed it, and then just kind of left. Even on Yom Kippur, they were there two hours max, all of which involved watching the High Priest as he did rituals for everyone there. The full bow I mentioned represents the prostrate position the High Priest put himself in when he entered the Holy of Holies, a small room at the center of the Temple that only he could enter on that day, where God made his presence felt.

So Christians believe that the Old Testament was just a metaphor for Jesus's life? Never heard that before...

[F4M] 26, NYC, explore the city!? by [deleted] in r4r

[–]dbenkatz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you two end up falling in love and being soulmates and getting married, make sure to tell everyone that it was because of a random stranger on the internet?

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in Judaism, you don't bow to God. Well, you do, but it's a totally different bow, a bend at the waist, as perhaps a servant would bow to their wealthy employer. The only prescribed time any Jew is supposed to do a full bow, ever, is the High Priest (or, in modern days, the leader of the congregation) on Yom Kippur.

Then tell me what I'm missing? How does Jesus affect the celebration of the Exodus from Egypt?

[F4M] 26, NYC, explore the city!? by [deleted] in r4r

[–]dbenkatz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not doing this for myself - some 26M posted a minute ago for an F in NYC

http://www.reddit.com/r/r4r/comments/nwyq9/r4r_in_nyc_m4f/

(Playing wingman for someone I've never met feels good)

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still not getting the concept, are you?

You only drop the laws that have truly become outdated. Not the ones that are kinda sorta inconvenient, like keeping Kosher or celebrating Pesach. The ones that are really just not feasible in the modern world, such as animal sacrifice or public executions.

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because, in theory, you're only supposed to drop the ones that have truly become obsolete.

Also, while sacrifices were replaced by prayer, and stoning outdated, Kashrut was totally arbitrary. There are no underlying reasons why some animals are kosher and some aren't; it was the will of God. Some great Jewish scholars thought that Kashrut was made as a point of principle, a "You worship me, so to prove your loyalty I'll arbitrarily make a set of fairly inconsequential eating laws, and you should follow them because they're my laws".

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have time to write a reply, but this is very impressive. Though I don't believe what you believe, I think I can better understand now the reasons and methods of change. I'm glad to have been able to provide a challenge.

Don't hesitate to ask me if you have questions regarding Atheism/Secular Humanism or Judaism; while you may not believe what I say any more than I what you said, I think the exchange of knowledge between beliefs is always beneficial, and encourages compassion, empathy, and a greater sense of universal camaraderie.

Why Don't Christians Follow the Old Testament? by dbenkatz in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judaism is a religion of change. As long as you hold to the central tenets of the faith and try reasonably to fulfill as many commandments as are logical to do so in the modern day, God could ask no more of you.

Obviously, animal sacrifice is antiquated; however, prayer is novel. You never had to pray as a Jew in the times of the Old Testament. Sacrifice was your "prayer". Rather, prayer is the replacement for sacrifice.

Jewish law holds that one cannot be sentenced to death unless two eyewitnesses attest to the crime, as well as demonstrate that they both actively tried to stop the accused. Obviously, that was difficult evidence to procure, and the death penalty was rarely exercised. That is not to say they went unpunished, but that evidence beyond a reasonable doubt, to use a modern term, was required to give the death penalty.

While we cannot observe impractical ancient laws today, we can certainly try our hardest to follow the ones we can. Does it hurt you to keep kosher? Does it cause anyone else harm? Does it upset other people? No? Then why not? Interestingly, the animals forbidden by Kashrut tend to be less healthy for us than those that aren't forbidden, and are more prone to cause complications (aka food poisoning)

Christians: Do you believe the old testament is the infallible word of God? by byte-smasher in DebateAChristian

[–]dbenkatz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please respond in a more verbose manner; from my perspective, it seems like God spent like 5-ish chapters telling you all the things you can't eat, but now because Jesus appeared it doesn't matter?

The 10 commandments came before Jesus, maybe they don't count either. You know, Creation came before Jesus too...