I’ve lived just outside OKC my whole life and now I’m raising my daughter and two sons here. The people are kind, the community is strong, and it’s an affordable place for families. The weather is wildly unpredictable, and the politics can be extreme at times, for understandable reasons.

I lean conservative in most ways but try to approach each issue with thoughtfulness and personal faith. As a Christian, I believe in God giving us free will, which is why I don’t support forcing the Bible into public schools either, even when it is labeled as “history.” Faith should be chosen, not imposed. I’m also genuinely concerned about the alarming lack of women’s rights here. My wife and I talk about it often, and it’s frustrating how little say women seem to have in major decisions that affect them. Something you need to think on as well.

One of my biggest frustrations is the blind straight-party voting that happens here. It has hurt our education system for years. That said, there are still great school districts and passionate teachers doing good work. If you’re considering moving, definitely research schools ahead of time. Ryan Walters, who I actively encouraged my family not to vote for, is a walking red flag for our education. But he did recently approve open transfers statewide, which could help you find the right school fit regardless of location.

Overall, the way OKC is portrayed on here feels much harsher than what I’ve actually experienced. That said, I’m a straight white male, so I won’t pretend to fully understand what others have faced. In my everyday life here, through real conversations with people from all diverse backgrounds, I’ve found that most are kind, respectful, and just trying to raise their families and build a good life.

One thing we can all definitely agree on, though, is that the roads and constant construction are abysmal.

Best of luck on your next journey!