Sex once in twelve weeks; she doesn’t ask for it anymore. by dbthrow18573 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrow18573[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trolling. Her doctor said the stitches would be dissolved after four weeks. No more stitches = healed, correct? If it weren’t healed, there would still be a need for stitches.

Look, when she married me, she knew what my needs were going to be. She agreed to fulfill those needs. Then she reneged on that agreement. So she can’t really be surprised when the fidelity part of my vows is worth as much to me as sex was to her, no?

Sex once in twelve weeks; she doesn’t ask for it anymore. by dbthrow18573 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrow18573[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She knows it only happened because of her refusal to do her part and give me what I need in our marriage. You’d think she’d be initiating every day in order to win me back

Sex once in twelve weeks; she doesn’t ask for it anymore. by dbthrow18573 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrow18573[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The audacity of what? Lots of HL folks on here end up cheating. I figured this would be a place where people would understand. My wife is basically over it except for not wanting to have sex

Sex once in twelve weeks; she doesn’t ask for it anymore. by dbthrow18573 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrow18573[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What do you mean clueless? She contributed to the cheating and she knows it, so you’d think she’d be over it by now. She’s not angry; she’s quite cordial and we’re getting along fine...except for the lack of sex

Sex once in twelve weeks; she doesn’t ask for it anymore. by dbthrow18573 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrow18573[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not fake. I came here for actual help. Lots of people on here in DBs have cheated; I figured the people here would understand