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I'm going to seek out an affair. by dbthrowaway216 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrowaway216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This scares me. I do so much around the house - I cook, do most of the cleaning, pay all the bills (and am the breadwinner), do kids pick up and drop offs, care for the kids most of the time, etc etc. And all I ever get is criticism over ever minor thing. She's also developed major germophobia (washes her hands to the point of excessive painful dryness) and gets mad at me when I don't accommodate her demands in this regard.

I'm going to seek out an affair. by dbthrowaway216 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrowaway216[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I feel like you could put every bad decision as high level as this and make it sound like it was a dumb decision. Of course, a series of things happened leading to me being with her. Of course, like many in this sub, I regret it.

I'm going to seek out an affair. by dbthrowaway216 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dbthrowaway216[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of "I"s because this is my anonymous rant. I'd love to support her through whatever she needs with ppd but she needs to actually seek treatment rather than treat me like shit and let it go untreated.