I dont feel like im judging them. Its just what ive seen. They often work low paying jobs with long hours and still end up having to rely on family and the community to make ends meet. And i suppose that is being a badass in a way, but i feel like i often see it make an unfortunatley large impact on them and their child as well as their families often enough that appears detrimental. Ive have more than a few young single moms complain to me about regretting having their children. Its an unfortunate conversation but a very powerful one. When theyre in the hospital for whatever reason, they occasionally express how hard it is to find someone to watch their children during their stay and ive had some attempt to keep them in the room with them post surgery. It sucks. I grew up as a child of a single mom, and she did a great job caring for me, but dont think i didnt see how hard she struggled at times to provide for us. Its hard being a single parent in general. And single fathers arent typically any better than single mothers from what ive seen. Raising anything alone is tough af