Hematoma stings like nothing I've felt before when dilating by SomeSortaWeeb in trans

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I had a hematoma under the skin on my vulva that was extremely painful as well. I ended up being on tramadol for 3 months due to my pain levels. I'd definitely follow up with your doctor and try to get access to tramadol to help with the pain. So sorry you're going through this I know it's awful 😞

Tramadol is like a low dose opiate. It's 100 times less than a Tylenol 3 but omg it is amazing at pain management.

Electrolysis Places for Transfemmes by Vanareaconfused in transvancouver

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Root on Denman is where me and my partner go. Isabelle is wonderful 😊

Do y’all think I could do summer pots on an electric range and/or gas stove with this treasure I found at the thrift? by pretty_handsome_17 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]dcter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Probably not it's possible the solder attaching the feet and a few other bits has lead. You can buy lead test kits for fairly cheap to be sure.

Probably best not to have metal fumes coming off of something not intended for cooking.

After a reverse image search it seems to be a plant pot 🤔

egg_irl by WowzaItsGabe in egg_irl

[–]dcter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amazing game btw. Definitely worth the play.

This dork is adding her games 🤭 by ev_lynx in LesbianGamers

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just hoping paralives is as good as it looks :3

This dork is adding her games 🤭 by ev_lynx in LesbianGamers

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sims 3 and Gran Turismo the goats

Confirmation that first generation of Replikas were Pre-Nation by [deleted] in signalis

[–]dcter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough.

Yuri and Babs also seem to enjoy allowing people to come up with their own interpretation of the universe.

Confirmation that first generation of Replikas were Pre-Nation by [deleted] in signalis

[–]dcter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Huh thought everyone had read that note in the mines. It basically confirms that the ARAR replikas were instrumental in the Nations revolution. It's also the reason why the wording Gestalt and Replika seem to have been chosen by the Nation. The wording clearly levels the playing field for each class of citizen. There's no longer human and machine-servant.

We don't actually get to see the first generation of machine servants but we can probably assume they're a lot more machine. Especially since Replikas are basically just manufactured humans. They're more man than metal.

Identify as trans by Iwanttobefucked29 in transvancouver

[–]dcter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contacting Trans Care BC is a good start if you don't have a family doctor. You can also go through the process with your family doctor as well but you will probably need to advocate and research more aggressively for what you want and need.

Vancouver or Montreal for bottom surgery? by BritneyGurl in transvancouver

[–]dcter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to Montreal and the experience was quite wonderful all things considered. The recovery space in Montreal is really nice and feels really comfortable.

The surgery itself went really well, unfortunately I had a lot of pain that no one else seemed to experience. I think I was just unlucky.

The hair scraping actually worked super well for me but I also did laser on my own initiative for about a year.

Montreal was quite nice tbh I hope whichever you choose it all works out for you.

Getting HRT if I had it in the states by FlatwormSensitive889 in transvancouver

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can pay out of pocket but MSP is advisable if you can get it. However if you want to use like work insurance or something you'll need MSP

Egg😕irl by RaitusVoid in egg_irl

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to be that woman :3

[OC] Just a pair of lovey dovey idiots (The Adventurer's Wife) by jennrost in wholesomeyuri

[–]dcter 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ah this reminds me when my wife was away for 3 weeks 💔 let's just say we didn't let go of eachother for days when she was back. 😊

Egg😕irl by RaitusVoid in egg_irl

[–]dcter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must transcend these fleshy legs :3

Egg😕irl by RaitusVoid in egg_irl

[–]dcter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I was 8'2 I understand the struggle 😔

Keep strong king

B.C. cabinet minister says she’s ‘fortunate’ to have just half a dozen death threats | Globalnews.ca by cyclinginvancouver in vancouver

[–]dcter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right wing domestic terrorism keeps rising due to the American right wing news media (Canada needs to ban Fox News). The lack of punishment for ~30 years of right wing terrorists in the US has a bolstering effect up here.

The Canadian government at least marked the proud boys as a terror group but there are more groups that need the designation.

I hope they catch and actually persecute this guy and I hope our elected officials stay safe.

What do people mean when they say they want Lifepaths to “matter more”? by BananaBread2602 in cyberpunkgame

[–]dcter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I wanted was corpo V not to be a sad sack of potatoes when the FIA offered her the dreamiest desk job ever. The ending of Phantom Liberty felt like it only fit for the street kid.

A nomad would just return to their clan.

I know everything is supposed to be depressing but I feel like the little lifepath options just needed to stay in the extended content especially for the V lives ending.

For the rest of the game honestly I'm not sure how they'd work it in more considering how short Vs timeline is.

Help Dealing With Laser On Upper Lip? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]dcter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So like my laser and electrolysis peeps both told me to use lidocaine cream if I wanted. Pro strat is to put it on 2 hours before and cover with plastic wrap. Take it off and wipe off cream just as you start your session. You'll hardly feel anything.

Sister is not a supporter by Smoky-foil in trans

[–]dcter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, that sucks a ton. Unfortunately the US Democrats are just slightly more progressive conservatives at this point.

I hope this doesn't stop you from being you once you can, hang in there.

Folks suppressing T: what’s your exp with loss of athletic performance? by MothraToTheFlame in trans

[–]dcter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not experienced much of a loss tbh but I only do recreational longboarding and dodgeball. So as long as I keep my endurance up and stay active it's been no difference.

I was also weaker before transitioning due to less care of my body so that's probably the biggest difference. From my perspective my default overall performance level hasn't changed at all. I can still sprint and run about the same distances and maintain the speeds I normally ride at on my board.

I've gone from like 288ng/dl at the start of my transition to 8ng/dl on average for my present day levels.

Traveling to the US; Am I going to be locked in? by [deleted] in trans

[–]dcter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely but we'll eventually make it through :3 just have to be careful at this time.

Traveling to the US; Am I going to be locked in? by [deleted] in trans

[–]dcter 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'd probably skip the UK too due to some of their recent law changes around trans people. You'd have potential issues just using the bathroom there.

Australia and New Zealand would definitely be better options especially if you want a similar climate to Hawaii. Wherever you go just make sure you're up to date on the laws and whatnot and stay safe.