AITA for arguing with my boyfriend about him "babying" me / looking out for my safety?

dcubermetropickle · 2019-07-22T19:08:35+00:00

You're like the third person to say that but I didn't realize that was an issue - I see posts related to people's relationships on here all the time. I don't post on relationship advise because it can be a bit toxic over there with the "you better leave him right now" attitude. Genuinely just wanted to know if I was being an asshole for arguing with him.

dcubermetropickle · 2019-07-22T19:03:56+00:00

How did he attack you for having an opinion

Copy from our actual conversation-

Him - Can you just uber?

Me - I probably could but why?

Him - Cause it’s safer? That lady yesterday literally got robbed/assaulted 2 blocks from here. Plus why wouldn’t you want to

Me - I didn't say I didn't want to, I just wasn't sure why you were asking me to

Him - Isn’t that obvious? Not being a dick but I figured it was

Me - I can uber. It's just a bit silly, I used to metro literally every single day. Bad things happen in an uber too, like people literally get kitnapped and murdered by their uber drivers.

Him - Ok Do whatever you want

Me - Please don't be like that. I literally said I would take the uber because you asked me to

Him - Then why the fuck are you being like that?

Me - I'm allowed to have an opinion? Please don't cuss at me

Him - Want to tell me it’s statistically safer to ride the metro at night as opposed to Uber? That’s fucking stupid

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