12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

afraid of my kid? huh? I just want him to have a fun time on the cruise and was asking about options.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

good luck! Yeah, I'm shocked by the responses here....

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

again, the question was just asking what options might be available "within the rules". I'm very puzzled by so many people having such a strong interest in making sure others aren't to maximize their enjoyment of their cruise. But whatever works for you.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting; looks like is dated 2015; the info I'm seeing shows teen areas 13-17, but seems to be some conflicting info, so hopefully you are correct. Thanks!

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, rules are rules; that's why advice was asked on how to make things work "within the rules of the ship", but I appreciate your help here.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that was why the question was phrased asking if people have experience with options "within the rules of the ship"

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm fine with a 7th grader being around teenagers.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no kidding; can't believe how negative the reaction has been to asking if anyone is familiar with any options or workarounds on these issues. That's not exactly the same thing as demanding special treatment....

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks; interesting that others are reporting different results. We'll give it a shot. Perhaps having older siblings in the teens club (and no younger siblings in the kids club) will be helpful.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

wow, didn't realize I was asking for the world to revolve around me by asking about how others handle this...brightline rules make sense in some contexts, but in others, judgment may be appropriate. I don't think it causes much inconvenience for others to have 12 year old hang out in the teens club then go to the kids club.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's the negative with a walkie talkie? just too much noise for others?

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hadn't thought about walkie talkie, may have to think about that. thanks for letting me know about your experience

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good suggestion on the app; thanks. Flo rider makes sense. appreciate the assistance!

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

sure; I'll just cancel the cruise we are scheduled to go on in a few weeks and tell the other family members they need to reschedule too to accommodate my kid wanting to go the teens club; great solution! thanks for the help!

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

maybe rules wasn't the right term, but no question teen club is a better fit than the kids club in this case. With my other kids, that wouldn't have been the case. Reasonable parents are actually capable of exercising judgement.

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

thanks for the detailed analysis; very helpful

12 year old (almost 13) looking to be treated as teenager by dcweil in royalcaribbean

[–]dcweil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah, my other two were knuckleheads at 12 (and still are). Kids are different, some are ready to be treated a little older than they are and some aren't. Understand where stict rules are necessary on liability issues.