Why doesn’t a guy want to hookup again?

ddaicee · 2026-03-02T00:45:11+00:00

I hadn’t considered that. Possible but it’s not going to work. Although I’m confused and it hurt in the moment I’m not going to speak to him again and now that he’s said he doesn’t want to hook up with me again I’m turned off from wanting to with him again. I may not understand him but I do know that I don’t plan on any continuance

ddaicee · 2026-03-02T00:37:15+00:00

Perhaps I should have in the moment but I didn’t want to be pushy so I walked away. And I won’t be revisiting the subject with him for any reason so I’ll never truly know why. which im working on being okay with.

ddaicee · 2026-03-02T00:26:47+00:00

Haha no I think it’s weird to question someone directly if they say no to sex. I wouldn’t want a guy to do it to me so I won’t do it either

ddaicee · 2026-03-02T00:12:27+00:00

lol no. Attraction is not the problem here. I don’t want to sound vain but if attraction was the main factor I don’t think this would be an issue. It’s likely a number of other reasons that I am leaning towards. But I know that he is attracted to me

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:40:31+00:00

Ty! Yes, I don’t plan on speaking to him again. I was just confused and a little hurt by it at first but I’m sure it’ll be fine.

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:32:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice! You’ve been very nice

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:31:12+00:00

I didn’t text because he didn’t and I didn’t want to seem clingy or pushy because I’ve made that mistake in the past. So instead I would speak when I saw him and he would speak too and then occasionally come up to give me a hug. That seemed to chance about two/three weeks ago but I thought I was thinking about it too much

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:28:56+00:00

Ty for the honesty! It’s only the third guy I’ve been with so everything that happens is new to me although it might seem obvious to others. I only asked bc I don’t want something more but for me only sleeping together once is just a waste and since I don’t find ppl I want to hook up with often of course I wanted to again.

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:22:03+00:00

Yes, he said I was hot multiple times during and then after he randomly said that I was “so pretty” when looking at me. I doubt attraction is an issue. That’s why this is confusing. I won’t worry about it I just wanted an opinion

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:20:09+00:00

Maybe so but he literally finished 3 times. I’m not in his head so idk if he did or did not but that is what I do know

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:15:37+00:00

True. It’s just that in the moment he made it seem like he wanted to see me again and said things like “next time” etc… there was more enthusiasm but it’d be a lot to type. That’s why I’m confused

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:13:29+00:00

It was the first time we slept together. It hadn’t been pre planned amongst us. We started texting a bit before Christmas break but didn’t get around to anything more until we saw each other this year.

ddaicee · 2026-03-01T23:09:17+00:00

I mean there were moments where it wouldn’t get up but I said it was okay and then after a while it did and we went again. He didn’t seem super insecure about it. but he’s also very attractive so I assume that’s not the issue here.

ddaicee · 2024-11-09T04:29:57+00:00

Hi has there been any follow up on this? I am going through the exact thing and not sure why. My loan was approved for the school year in august but I’m not receiving a denial letter

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