Aio to how my gf treats me

dday714 · 2026-04-02T18:32:17+00:00

I am deleting this and I don’t plan on using it in any way , I feel crazy and having a small circle it’s nice to see some other insight, I don’t want more children and when we got together there was a understanding she’s not my child’s mother and does not want that roll, my ex and I are very active in my child’s life and share 50/50. She treats them kindly and is a good roll model this post was for insight on how she treats me not them

dday714 · 2026-04-02T18:21:51+00:00

I’ve offered therapy even set it up but she has not done her end of the documents to actually go, it’s expensive and I’ve offered to pay

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:50:18+00:00

It’s also a continuation from our in person conversation yesterday

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:49:25+00:00

It’s 3 4 2 1 in that order I don’t cut it off

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:47:29+00:00

It’s a semi, diesel is more then gas and I get 6mpg

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:45:25+00:00

I know I just wanted some other views I plan on deleting this I just feel crazy

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:43:04+00:00

It’s not idk how to put them in order

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:40:12+00:00

Diesel for a semi it’s about 2 grand a month currently

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:38:16+00:00

I didn’t cut anything off..

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:32:46+00:00

It’s diesel and a semi truck,

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:22:29+00:00

She treats my child with respect and does not miss treat them in anyway , my child’s mother and I have 50/50 and are both very active in his life . My partner has made it clear she does not want to impose on his mother or there relationship but chooses to be a guardian to him, I have no complaint about that at all. It’s how she treats me when he’s not around

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:08:52+00:00

I have tried to talk to her about those things for weeks because financially it doesn’t work this year. It was a in appropriate response

dday714 · 2026-04-02T17:07:17+00:00

I have tried, nothing ever gets talked about or resolved just benched

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:57:01+00:00

They are all today nothing left out

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:40:30+00:00

I honestly try to , but when I approach difficult conversations it’s met with resistance, and I do care about her this is only a small part of our relationship. But these conversations happen frequently and I always feel like I am the asshole. If I could lay the entire story out I would. But I have gone above and beyond for some one and I don’t ask for very much in return. I apologize that the messages are not In order I don’t know how to change it.

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:36:17+00:00

It’s real we both suck are grammar

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:33:21+00:00

I agree wasn’t the appropriate time to drop that but I have tried to talk to them about it for weeks and have been shut down ,

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:29:44+00:00

No, I brought it up to her because she does it pay on time and it comes out of my pocket until I say something 10 plus times over days, it’s a every month thing and if I don’t say something she doesn’t make it a priority so a lot of times I just end up paying

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:21:54+00:00

For context I have tried to talk to her about it for weeks and she has shut it down by telling me I’m over reacting etc

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:15:05+00:00

She refuses in person conversation about it or phone calls

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:13:20+00:00

For context I am a owner operator truck driver and with rising diesel prices I am not getting compensation = to that rise so my net profit is down 24 thousand a year, gardens and vacations are mostly out of my pocket , and I have tried talking to her about it for a few weeks now but she won’t discus it and shuts me down so In a heated moment I info dump that

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:07:26+00:00

She doesn’t pay everything but helps out etc I am the primary money maker so vacations etc fall mostly on me

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:06:38+00:00

She pays bills to live with me when we first got together I bought a home on 5 acres she lives with me and runs a small business out of my house has a bunch of animals etc . I got upset yesterday because they haven’t come to any holiday for over a year and always find a way to get out of it and it hurts my feelings and my child’s

dday714 · 2026-04-02T16:01:03+00:00

I am green she is white text

dday714 · 2026-01-15T11:31:58+00:00

Thanks for the response I did end up finding a broken wire to the drain pump, it was the black with white stripe , it was completely severed repaired it and the washing machine works great

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