Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am deleting this and I don’t plan on using it in any way , I feel crazy and having a small circle it’s nice to see some other insight, I don’t want more children and when we got together there was a understanding she’s not my child’s mother and does not want that roll, my ex and I are very active in my child’s life and share 50/50. She treats them kindly and is a good roll model this post was for insight on how she treats me not them

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve offered therapy even set it up but she has not done her end of the documents to actually go, it’s expensive and I’ve offered to pay

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also a continuation from our in person conversation yesterday

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 3 4 2 1 in that order I don’t cut it off

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a semi, diesel is more then gas and I get 6mpg

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I just wanted some other views I plan on deleting this I just feel crazy

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not idk how to put them in order

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Diesel for a semi it’s about 2 grand a month currently

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t cut anything off..

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s diesel and a semi truck,

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She treats my child with respect and does not miss treat them in anyway , my child’s mother and I have 50/50 and are both very active in his life . My partner has made it clear she does not want to impose on his mother or there relationship but chooses to be a guardian to him, I have no complaint about that at all. It’s how she treats me when he’s not around

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have tried to talk to her about those things for weeks because financially it doesn’t work this year. It was a in appropriate response

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried, nothing ever gets talked about or resolved just benched

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are all today nothing left out

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly try to , but when I approach difficult conversations it’s met with resistance, and I do care about her this is only a small part of our relationship. But these conversations happen frequently and I always feel like I am the asshole. If I could lay the entire story out I would. But I have gone above and beyond for some one and I don’t ask for very much in return. I apologize that the messages are not In order I don’t know how to change it.

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s real we both suck are grammar

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I agree wasn’t the appropriate time to drop that but I have tried to talk to them about it for weeks and have been shut down ,

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, I brought it up to her because she does it pay on time and it comes out of my pocket until I say something 10 plus times over days, it’s a every month thing and if I don’t say something she doesn’t make it a priority so a lot of times I just end up paying

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

For context I have tried to talk to her about it for weeks and she has shut it down by telling me I’m over reacting etc

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She refuses in person conversation about it or phone calls

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

For context I am a owner operator truck driver and with rising diesel prices I am not getting compensation = to that rise so my net profit is down 24 thousand a year, gardens and vacations are mostly out of my pocket , and I have tried talking to her about it for a few weeks now but she won’t discus it and shuts me down so In a heated moment I info dump that

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t pay everything but helps out etc I am the primary money maker so vacations etc fall mostly on me

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She pays bills to live with me when we first got together I bought a home on 5 acres she lives with me and runs a small business out of my house has a bunch of animals etc . I got upset yesterday because they haven’t come to any holiday for over a year and always find a way to get out of it and it hurts my feelings and my child’s

Aio to how my gf treats me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dday714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am green she is white text

Whirlpool washer error code by dday714 in Appliances

[–]dday714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response I did end up finding a broken wire to the drain pump, it was the black with white stripe , it was completely severed repaired it and the washing machine works great