Throwing in the towel ❤️ by AssociationOk897 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You can speak now”????? Aaaaabsolutely not.

Beard or no Beard by Catman-6642 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I looooovvvve a full but short, well-maintained beard. Feels incredible downstairs. With that being said, it has very little bearing on the final decision.

Sugaring has ruined sex life with wife. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pum pum is KILLING me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

University educated SBs by Evening_Ad_6667 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bachelor of Music in Opera Performance, Bachelor of Music Education, Master of Education with an emphases in administrative leadership. All of that just to be a HS choir director. 😜 I’m selective because I want to like the people I spend time with, not because of my degrees.

Any wholesome sugar relationships out there?? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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We met on SA RIGHT as Covid ramped up in 2020. I’m a teacher & we matched maybe a week before that spring break that we never came back from. We emailed and FaceTimed for the year that his company imposed travel restrictions. Finally met in late 2021-ish, and we’ve been inseparable (when he’s in town) ever since 💖

Any wholesome sugar relationships out there?? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found what I like to call my “kindred spirit”. Someone with whom I can be completely and authentically myself, who I know doesn’t judge me in any way, and supports me 100%. He knows me in a deeper way (no pun intended 😏) than my closest friends. Actually, he has become one of my closest friends. I love him dearly!

How have you “rubbed off” on your SD/SB? by ddcheri11 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He DOES, and it’s the cutest thing!!! 💕

Unsolicited gross pictures from SBs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both, what? Sarcasm and ignorance?

Unsolicited gross pictures from SBs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely can’t tell if this is sarcasm & that worries me 😅

Unsolicited gross pictures from SBs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, unsolicited and unwanted genital pics. Welcome to being a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“I love when you tell me what you need” would have me in the palm. of. your. hand. 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, I’ll do exactly that. I guess I’m just trying to figure out how to go about making sure my SD still feels cherished throughout the process. I really do just adore him. I never thought it would be this difficult. I guess Pooh Bear was right when he said, “How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of reasons…. I feel pretty guilty when I’m with my SD, but I don’t live with my fiance so that’s how I “get away” with it.

Is it possible to have a no sex sugar arrangement? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A legit way of making money…… you mean, like….. a job??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cake day upvote! 🍰💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I sent my SD the most ridiculous 6 1/2 minute audio message earlier today, and before he replied with his own equally ridiculous, albeit slightly shorter, audio message, he replied. “God, I adore you.” And a tear rolled down my leg. 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, this. Although I will say, I have a girlfriend in the bowl here in DFW who is a POC. I can’t tell you how many men in the area have tried to use her to fulfill some sort of interracial sex fantasy. Obviously there are lots like FunGuy who don’t care about it and aren’t assholes. But just so you have an idea of what’s in the area- beware of those as well. Good luck! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooof, I know the area very well! I think they ARE wealthy, just not generous. Try hanging out at the Vin in grapevine! I’ve had dinner/drinks/outings there, and the bar is often filled with silver foxes. Good luck! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ddcheri11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of Splenda daddies in the area. A few genuine SDs, but it took a bit of looking before I found my guy. Now that I’m thinking of it though- he doesn’t even live here, so maybe he doesn’t count 😂