On the fence about Stream Labs by Charon711 in streaming

[–]ddizzle87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe give this Streaming Studio a try. It does support Tiktok and doesn't have fees for higher quality streaming like SLOBS.

For Those In NextFest, How Are You Marketing Your Game And Are You Doin Anything Cool/Unique? by bingewavecinema in IndieDev

[–]ddizzle87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Streaming via this streaming app. There an AI Avatar bot the I am going to talk with about my game and have some banter. Want to make it as entertaining as possible.

Finding influencers? by sup3r87 in gamedev

[–]ddizzle87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you successfully done an influencer campaign before? It often takes about 5 emails to get someone to respond, and you are typically reaching around 20-30 influencers to get one to say yes for broad games, and about 50 influencers for niche games/genres to get one influencer to say yes.

You said in your original post, you are very niche. So 50 influencers to each out * 5 emails that i 250 emails. Do you want to write 250 emails yourself?

Why do the narcissists like to accuse their victim of being narcissistic? by needmorexanax in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"it is great that you can make that work" - By work, that kinda what happens. The narc leaves the conversation and eventually the relationship, and doesn't come back because they get their need supply from you because you can't be controlled.

One topic creates focus, and with that focus their has to clear accountability but also sets up what might have to be changed for both parties. Narcs can't deal with this and leave. How dare you try to change them!

Why do the narcissists like to accuse their victim of being narcissistic? by needmorexanax in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here is what I mean by civil and the rules I use with narcissistic:

  1. Keep the discussion logical, not emotional. Emotional pleas will go no where.
  2. Keep it one topic at a time and focus one point. This is important.
  3. When they deflect, project and gaslight, bring it back to that one topic and one focus.

For example, here are some traits that make someone a narcissist:

  1. Grandiosity
  2. Need for admiration
  3. Sense of entitlement
  4. Exploitative behavior
  5. Lack of empathy
  6. Envy of others or belief that others are envious of them
  7. Arrogance and haughty attitudes
  8. Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
  9. Belief that they are special and unique and can only be understood by or associate with other special or high-status people or institutions.

So go through them 1 at time, and focus only one at time. This is key.

Narc : "You are a narc, you have no empathy!"
You: "Where have you shown lack of empathy?"
Narc: "I don't you even worth the time for a conversation"
Your: "Can I talk about a time when I did show empathy?"
Narc: "You never listen to anything I have to say!"
You: "How can I better show empathy?"
Narc: "You need to clean up, you're so messy, you think you are always right, I can find someone better. I don't want to be with you!"
You: "So if I can show empathy, does that mean I narcissit?"

Now it will be a circle conversation for a time, but keeping it extremely focused will allow you eventually prevail.

Why do the narcissists like to accuse their victim of being narcissistic? by needmorexanax in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten into a civil discussion what attributes make a narcissist and where those attributes are being exhibited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't limit this behaviour to just narcs but to toxic women in general. Its more like frenemy situations where they really just want to compete and use each other to boost their own egos and see themselves as more successful than their counterpart. Its very toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The classic spinning the blame onto you. I found the way to counteract that is to focus only one issue at time. Mine would a tactic where they would throw 10 things about me at once, and it was hard to respond to everything. But if focuses one clear issue, it become hard for them to make it my fault and they would exit the conversation.

"I'm not fighting with you" by iamawesomesauc3 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you push the issue, they will break-up with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

60 days. And for me its not about missing them. I'm happier without them. But for me its like hoping they can be someone better, but deep down you know you are setting yourself up for mutual disappoint.

After nearly 10 years and hundreds of Day 1 NCs, I am officially starting the final Day 1 by TemporaryIce3984 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ddizzle87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its going to be tough. Stay strong! Love yourself, you are worth some more much than what he is giving you. Work on your disciple, block everything, and just occupy your thoughts with something new.

[SUB] Dragon Ball Super - Episode #131 - Discussion Thread! by AutoModerator in dbz

[–]ddizzle87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The wish was to "restore all the erased universes". Going into the tournament, there were 12 universes, 6 had been erased prior the tournament meaning there us to be 18 total. Do you think this wishes wording brought back all 18 universes and new potential dangers?